betterdeal Posted March 13, 2011 Share Posted March 13, 2011 Yes. He's an interloper and he's laughing at you right now. He'll do it again when he has a chance because you are saying you will let him. More than that, I'd say to my partner that I want us to go into relationship counselling or to begin divorce proceedings. Drinking to forget, violence, disrespect and having sex with other men in front of me are all way beyond the lines that I draw. But that is just me. You do what you think and feel is best to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Jack & Coke Posted March 13, 2011 Share Posted March 13, 2011 1. Skol Vikings 2. You need to put your foot down (if you even still want to be with her after that episode, geez). She doesn't respect you if she'll do that IN FRONT OF YOU multiple times, especially if you always just shrug it off. Next time take control of the situation and your environment. Call a cab to get home if you two are too drunk. Based on what you said, you already felt something was up when inside the bar, so you definitely shouldn't have let the night end at his place. You don't have to shout, you don't have to curse. Look her dead in her eye and in a firm tone let her know this kind of thing won't happen anymore, and if it does you two can go your separate ways. And mean it when you say it... Link to post Share on other sites
WorldIsYours Posted March 13, 2011 Share Posted March 13, 2011 Leave the drunken wh*re. Link to post Share on other sites
justsam Posted March 13, 2011 Share Posted March 13, 2011 Sorry bro, but she's playing you like a bozo. Some people might not want to tell it like it is, but I will. Of course your not in the wrong. You have to lay some strict boundaries now. I she really loves you, then she will comply with your requests for peace of mind. If she negates, I don't think she really cares about you. Link to post Share on other sites
worlybear Posted March 13, 2011 Share Posted March 13, 2011 You do make a good point with the drinking and I am strongly going to look at myself. What do you think I should do aboutmy daughter? I do not feel that I should ruin the teacher career by reporting him. It was wrong of him and unprofessional. I don't want to ruin his life Because my wife was being a drunk ho. 'Scuse me for chiming in , don't know where you are,but here in the uk, even if your wife had an all-out fling with your daughter's teacher he wouldn't lose his job,even if it looked suspiciously like it happened during worktime- yeah it sucks big time, but don't hold your breath expecting him to be instantly dismissed- it just won't happen! Link to post Share on other sites
MarriedGuyNTennessee Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 Things work a little differently here in the US. A teacher who has the morals of an alley cat and is bar hopping for married women, including the married Mom's of his students, usually doesn't last long when word gets out. JZON, you and your wife have much deeper issues. The behavior expressed while drinking is but a symptom of more serious underlying issues. Link to post Share on other sites
dbtmarley Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 I'm a little late to the party, but wow, I've gotta say that is one of the most screwed up stories I have ever heard. Dude, you ever hear that saying , "When the cat's away the mice will play"? Well, you're supposed to be that cat and the mouse ain't gonna play if it knows you'd never allow it. My God, in front of you? I've never laid a hand on a woman either, but this is something I am sure was well understood by any woman I was married to (twice) and/or dated (lost count), let alone another man in the room, that if this line was crossed right in front of me there was going to be problems. You've got to stand up for yourself. Your wife does not respect you. And I don't think she ever will at this point. Do you seriously need to ask what you need to do? Go grab another drink and kick that female out, tell her to go over to Mr. Teacher's house. Link to post Share on other sites
musemaj11 Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 Why the good men always end up with psychos? LOL Link to post Share on other sites
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