Lucky_One Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 Are you just coming here to vent, or do you really want something in your life to change? If you REALLY want change, then start it. Your life is basically under your control. You say you have a vehicle. You say you have a part-time job. You say you are a straight A student. You say you have always behaved and been a good girl. So go apply for a student loan (a HELP loan, in AU). Try to increase your hours at work. Look on bulletin boards for people in search of a roommate. Ask school friends if they want to share a flat. But you are complaining and complaining, and then complaining some more when you aren't being "supported" in your complaints, when you haven't made a SINGLE post about doing something pro-active about your own situation. If YOU won't do something pro-active for yourself, or even read the suggestions here and comment on those, then why do you expect US to do something for you? Link to post Share on other sites
TwinkletOes26 Posted April 20, 2011 Share Posted April 20, 2011 One can never fully understand anothers situation unless they are in their shoes.....with that said...no one here knows what SK goes through on a day to day basis....yes yall say move out but with few resources(which it sounds as though she has) that makes it a bit harder. SK this site is full of opinons plain and simple and we all know that opinons are like belly buttons everyone has one. The longer you stay here the more you will realize there are just some opinons you just need to disregard. Remember these people(myself included) dont know you and dont fully know your situation. They are basing their answers on what is a snapshot of what your full situation is. To make a thread mocking yes I saw the thread and it was mocking....is just down right immature. How can people on here ask SK to "grow up" when they turn around and do something that right out of the movie mean girls. We are suppose to be on this site to help people not bring them down. When people talk about something that hurts them or is upsetting then to have someone turn right around and mock that person I just have no words. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sugarkane Posted April 20, 2011 Author Share Posted April 20, 2011 Thanks Twinkletoes26. You people on here have no idea how domineering and over controlling my father really is. Easy to say if you don't live at home at all. I can relate to applefruits post Link to post Share on other sites
Memphis Raines Posted April 20, 2011 Share Posted April 20, 2011 One can never fully understand anothers situation unless they are in their shoes.....with that said...no one here knows what SK goes through on a day to day basis she's 24 ....yes yall say move out but with few resources(which it sounds as though she has) that makes it a bit harder. If I was living under my parents roof because I can't afford my own place, it woudln't be my place to criticize them. Like I said, alot of parents would have booted their 24 yo adult child out by now to force them to take responsibility for themselves. SK this site is full of opinons plain and simple and we all know that opinons are like belly buttons everyone has one. The longer you stay here the more you will realize there are just some opinons you just need to disregard. Remember these people(myself included) dont know you and dont fully know your situation. They are basing their answers on what is a snapshot of what your full situation is. she is 24 To make a thread mocking yes I saw the thread and it was mocking....is just down right immature. How can people on here ask SK to "grow up" when they turn around and do something that right out of the movie mean girls. she is 24 We are suppose to be on this site to help people not bring them down. she is 24. i did give her advice. I gave her advice on student loans while one is working to support themselves. She can even get a roommate to split costs. I told her that she doesn't have to take her parents crap, at 24. There are a bunch of things she could do. She just doesn't seem interested in any of that. Just interested in criticizing the parents that are still welcoming her into their home as a 24 year old adult. again. she is 24. she has options. and beggars must not be choosers. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sugarkane Posted April 23, 2011 Author Share Posted April 23, 2011 Thanks but actually I've been looking at different loans, since the last time I posted Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sugarkane Posted April 24, 2011 Author Share Posted April 24, 2011 she's 24 If I was living under my parents roof because I can't afford my own place, it woudln't be my place to criticize them. Like I said, alot of parents would have booted their 24 yo adult child out by now to force them to take responsibility for themselves. QUOTE] Like I said before you have no idea to the extent how over controlling my father is. I've been trying to get a friend to help me. But I have to wait til after easter, just to see them. And even then we have to figure out a time, to get my stuff out while my parents aren't home. They also like gulit tripping me alot aswell. If we stand up for ourselves, our mother makes us apologize to him. I expect ALOT of screaming from them when I leave. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sugarkane Posted April 25, 2011 Author Share Posted April 25, 2011 So far you still haven't answered why my parents are stuck in the 1950s to begin with Link to post Share on other sites
Memphis Raines Posted April 25, 2011 Share Posted April 25, 2011 Like I said before you have no idea to the extent how over controlling my father is. really? he is so controlling, that at age 24, he somehow is able to keep you in the house? You can't get out on your own? He holding a gun to your head? you are 24. Link to post Share on other sites
Memphis Raines Posted April 25, 2011 Share Posted April 25, 2011 So far you still haven't answered why my parents are stuck in the 1950s to begin with and you really expect an answer to that? the answer is, how the hell should we know? because thats the way they are, plain and simple. but its irrelevant if they are stuck in the '50s you are 24, take responsibility for YOU. you can't do anythign about them, all you can do is guide your own life. and no, your father can't make you stay. I'm hearing some lame excuses here. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted April 26, 2011 Share Posted April 26, 2011 Thanks but actually I've been looking at different loans, since the last time I posted Good. And what have you found out? Have you applied? How long before you hear the results of the applications? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sugarkane Posted May 9, 2011 Author Share Posted May 9, 2011 You people might think its funny, but my dad has a serious anger problem. He's verbally abusive and punches walls in the house. i don't make anything up. Link to post Share on other sites
JonasAdam Posted May 9, 2011 Share Posted May 9, 2011 Find a good friend you can share with, and get a loan, then get a FT job. Don't talk - do. If you're so desperate to move out - believe me - you will. I have seen people in more dire financial circumstances than you make a move. be pro-active. Go for it. What have you got to lose? what about the liposuction flanks process Link to post Share on other sites
JonasAdam Posted May 9, 2011 Share Posted May 9, 2011 what about the liposuction flanks process liposuction flanks before and after is the best method for patient understanding Link to post Share on other sites
Memphis Raines Posted May 9, 2011 Share Posted May 9, 2011 You people might think its funny, but my dad has a serious anger problem. He's verbally abusive and punches walls in the house. i don't make anything up. and what does this have to do with the fact that you are 24 and can take control of your life? or is this another excuse as to why you can't leave, because you fear for your life if you do? Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted May 10, 2011 Share Posted May 10, 2011 Good. And what have you found out? Have you applied? How long before you hear the results of the applications? Bump. Bunny Link to post Share on other sites
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