mjv1986 Posted March 13, 2011 Share Posted March 13, 2011 Hi there, I will try and keep this as short as I can Basically, a 3.5 year relationship ended in July 2010 and I decided in Sept 2010 I would join a dating site and meet some new girls who I could date. There was one who we started talking etc etc and then met up at the end of November 2010. I said straight from the off that I had just come out of a long relationship so I didn't know what I want etc and that I wanted to take things slow. Since then, we see each other about once a week, ie a meal, cinema, just the normal things. We get on well and we do have fun, but I am just not getting that "spark" from her that makes me think this is going to last very long? I would not say I "love" her but i do like her but its very hard to tell if it will blossom into anything more, or whether I will only ever "like" her. She is a lovely girl and I don't really want her to think there is something more, if I think there isn't going to be! So really I just want some advice on whether this sounds like it will not have a future, or if a future could happen! I'm just a bit confused Thanks in advance for any help!! Link to post Share on other sites
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