ring Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 hello every body just some facts about me,i am 20 years old,only have one friend,and never have had a girlfriend. i am new to the shack and the main reason i am here is to make some friends,which is a rather hard thing for me to do,and i don't know why,i always think in my head how i want to just jump up and talk to someone new or make some friends real quick,but,every time that opportunity comes to my grasp,i seem to look,rather then take at the chance,and as soon as the moment is past i think of all the things i should have done and how that person would have probably liked me if i had at least tried to look them in the eye not at the floor or to the side,i don't know why i lock up so much around people i don't know,and it can drain me so much that i need a nap after i am around them. is there anyone out there that is like me or was like and found a way to get out of it,or is there someone out there this is like me but still found a way to make friends? thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
zebracolors Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 Welcome to LS. Hopefully you find the place to be helpful and maybe enlightening. Many here are pretty nice and helpful but honestly, at most online, people you meet will usually become little more then just acquaintances who you may never meet in the real world. Thats not to say you can't potentially make good friends here. Just don't depend entirely on LS or the internet to make friends. By the way many people still have never experienced a serious relationship while they are in the early 20s age range, so you're not alone in that regard. I didn't get into my first relationship (if you could call it that) until I was about 23 or 24. So relax you still have plenty of time to meet people. And meeting people is going to take some action on your part. Join discussions here if you have a thought. And in the real world, join groups that do activities you are interested and they can be easier to find than you might think. Making friends is never guaranteed in any situation but if you make the effort, you can get out of it what you put in. Happy posting. Link to post Share on other sites
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