Sexual issues

[Wondering]

I know this may sound stupid of me but I really would like to know what excatly is orgasms and how would I know (as a lady) that I'm sexually aroused?

 

Also how can I tell whether my guy is? Thanks.

[Paulie]

Explore-alot, and you'll know it. Believe me, you'll KNOW IT. i RECOMMEND YOU CHECK OUT WWW.DRDREW.COM

 

lOTS OF THIS KIND OF INFO ON THAT SITE. Good luck.

[Tony T]

I know this may sound stupid of me but I really would like to know what excatly is orgasms and how would I know (as a lady) that I'm sexually aroused?

 

If you have to ask these questions and you are older than 14, you could have psychological or developmental problems. You certainly have communication problems with your mother, who should have gone into detail about this with you. But I do know that many parents or guardians leave this sexual learning process up to what their kids learn from other kids on the street (very sad).

 

If you are 14 or over and have never felt sexually aroused, don't worry...you may just be a late bloomer. But I promise, when you ultimately become aroused you will not have to post on the Internet to know what it feels like.

 

Unless there is something extremely abnormal in your guy, you should be able to tell by his obvious behavior whether or not he is aroused.

 

I urge you to see a doctor, explain that you have never been sexually aroused, and see what issues may be present that have prevented this experience for you.

 

On the other hand, I am a man and I began to get aroused...a lot...at age 12 and it got me into worlds of trouble. You may be lucky in a way.

[Nina]

I know this may sound stupid of me but I

really would like to know what excatly is orgasms and how would I know (as a lady) that I'm sexually aroused? Also how can I tell whether my guy is? Thanks.

A man gets an erection when her's aroused. The smooth muscle in his penis relaxes, to increase blood flow to the spongy tissue in the member itself. When the penis is engorged with blood it is larger, longer and usually a darker red color. When a man experiences performance anxiety or impotence, the smooth muscle is unable to relax to allow for added blood flow and isthus unable to get an erection. Viagra works by relaxing the smooth muscle tissue.

 

A woman is aroused much more subtly. Increased vaginal lubrication occurs. The clitoris and labia may become engorged with blood and swell slightly. They become more dark red and more sensitive as well. Breathing rates increase, muscles relax. You sweat more. Your face becomes flushed and hot.

 

Orgasm is the climax of this, and involves involuntary muscle contractions and spasms. Men rech this with adequate stimulation of the penis, either through vigorous rubbing in masturbation or during sex. Women can reach orgasm through two ways: clitoral stimulation and vaginal stimmulation. Some women are unable to reach orgasm in one ofthe two ways, or both, but this is usually due to psychological problems. Vaginal stimulation allows for a more intense orgasm when the G-spot is stimulated. The G-spot is located on the vaginal wall and is differnt in each woman. It is a bundle of nerve endings that are sensitive to stimulation, like the clitoris.