Ex on a daily basis

[Troubled15]

hi ive seen this been posted somewhere kind of the same issue as me!

 

Im at school with my ex girlfriend who i really love, the initial pain of breaking up with her was really hard at the start but it has got better bt i still get these days and nights (like now) when im soo down and think about her i know i need to get over her for various reasons but i think seeing her evryday at school and being in lessons with her makes it alot harder!!

 

i mean i wudnt lie id love to go back out with her but i dont really let that known to her.

Recently a couple of days back she said she was thinking about me and said she missed me ect i didnt say much to that and just kind of went. Before i would pour my heart out and say i miss her but i havnt said this to her for a long time i think im learning !

what do u think this means she's said this a couple times to me and ive just acted cool about things.

Do you think she wants to hear that im missing her?

 

confused!

 

thanks for listening

[magda]

She probably does want to hear that you miss her, but whether she'd like to get back together is another matter entirely. Most girls are like that, honestly -- maybe people in general. Wanting people to want them, you know. Since you know you shouldn't get back together with her, I'd just continue to keep my feelings to myself if I were you. Also, since you're having trouble getting over her with seeing her everyday, it's advisable that you avoid conversations with her, especially those that might lead to intimate confessions like this.

[dazedandconfused]

Everyday I have to see my first love (my ex) and his new girlfriend together at school. He cut off all contact with me although we were best friends and dated for a very long time, and started dating one of my used-to-be-friends. He also says many hurtful things about me and does very cruel things to hurt my feelings. So I feel for you when you say that you have to see your ex everyday----I've gotten to the point where I am switching schools.

 

On a brighter note, it sounds like you and this girl still have extremley evident feelings for one another. My ex and I began to have this again earlier on in the school year but it was halted when he fleed for his new catch. We never truly expressed that we missed one another very often, including myself--even though I am STILL hurting seven months later.

 

Don't let this opportunity pass you up. If you want the pain to end, give her a call. Tell her you need to talk to her in person and look her in the eyes. Remind her of your past times together and if there was anything you needed to work in the past relationship tell her you're willing to do anything to make it work.

 

If you love her... why not tell her? If her reply is negative, you'd need to know anyway to help your heart move on.

 

Take a chance---- what do you honestly have to lose? If her answer is that she doesn't care about you, you'd find it out sooner than later and prevent horrible heartbreak.

 

-Good Luck and Keep Us Posted!!-

[Troubled15]

Sorry to hear about you having to put up with an ex everyday aswell, it must hurt seeing him especially withsomeone els!

 

yeah i still have feelings for her, and she may do too. Im not sure i should tell her i love her though she knows i love her and i think by talking about us to quick down the line may push her away further and annoy her its only been 3 months.

 

I think she thinks about all the past times we had so i dont need to tell her i think this because of Recently i've started to wear an old cologne which went down well with her she used to like it and the smell reminds her of the old times which is always good, the time i was wearing it i think was the peak of our realationship if u get me?!!!!

 

I do agree with what your saying about calling her up but im not sure now is the right time and if she dumped me wudnt she call me if she changed her mind or wanted to start again!?

 

 

thanks 4 the replys i appreciate it