Getting beyond the first date

[waynesworld]

In the past, I haven't really dated a lot; it seems I've always been in relationships. But since breaking up with my ex in October, I've been getting out there and dating.

 

I don't have trouble getting first or even second dates, but anything beyond that has been rare. I realize that this is probably the way it's supposed to work to some degree. After all, the initial dates are about figuring out if you "click". But I'm starting to wonder if it's something I'm doing or not doing that's a huge turnoff?

 

Somebody enlighten me with some deep insight.