Eclypse Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 Well a week ago I cheated on my girlfriend and I still feel pretty lousy about it. The girl invited me back to her place, and I nearly went however I manged to come to my senses. We only ended up kissing and cuddling a bit. Now I'm feeling like I'm in a bit of dilemma. I love my girlfriend very much, She's the light of my life. But I also feel like I want to experiment :S she is my first girlfriend and I never had anyone else before her. I'm just wondering what life is going to be like with the same person forever. Thinking about cheating makes me feel scummy, but in a way it almost seems thrilling. So basically I want to broaden my horizons but I don't want to lose my gf. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to know those are mutually exclusive. I just feel kinda lost and confused. Has anyone ever felt like this while younger?? I'm 20 if it help. Link to post Share on other sites
spice4life Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 Oh for the love God! Don't put the girl through that wishy washy crap. If that's how you feel then let her go so she can find someone who is a better fit. Don't be D*** and gaslight the poor woman just because you can't make up your mind. Be a man and break up with her now. Believe me...it's the only fair thing to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Linda9999 Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 Oh for the love God! Don't put the girl through that wishy washy crap. If that's how you feel then let her go so she can find someone who is a better fit. Don't be D*** and gaslight the poor woman just because you can't make up your mind. Be a man and break up with her now. Believe me...it's the only fair thing to do. Hear hear. I have two sons your age and if they were doing what you are I would slap them upside the head. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 Sounds like you want to go and experience things. That's fine, but not on the expense of your girlfriend. you need to decide what is more important to you. Having a girlfriend, someone who loves you and having a relationship, or having mindless flings here and there for sex and fun, nothing too serious and no committment. Link to post Share on other sites
Woman In Blue Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 Oh for god's sakes, you're a mere baby of 20. You're NOT stuck to your girlfriend's hip for the rest of your life. So now that you finally got a taste of what you were missing all this time, you want to branch out and experience as much of it as you possibly can. That's what boys your age DO. No one a mere 20 years old is expected to dedicate the rest of his LIFE to the first girlfriend he ever had. By this time next year, you both probably won't even remember each other's names. Link to post Share on other sites
jnj express Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 At your age you don't need to be in a relationship---go out date, sow your wild oats, and have fun---experience life In 4 or 5 years you can start to worry about settling down----then you can have your relationship/mge. Mge is hard work, and very real, its not all fun and games---so go out now and enjoy yourself---you will be way better off, getting the fooling around with others out of your system Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts