alaman19 Posted April 1, 2004 Share Posted April 1, 2004 Ok, first off thanks to everyone who replied to my post on guys with glasses..I was not expecting that much of a response but it really made me feel better about wearing these things. Ok on with the new post: There's a girl that I go to college with this semester and I only have her in one of my classes and she's a pretty good looking girl in my opinion. Well after a month of being shy I started talking to her and told her who I was and she told me her name as well and we talked about the class and stuff usually I'll make a silly joke or witty remark about the teacher cause he's a boring teacher to alot of the class members and she always smiles and laughs at the remark i'll make. Alot of times I'll walk with her out to the parking lot but today I couldn't cause I had somewhere to be. When she came in she came up to me to find out if I was here on Mon cause she wasn't and wanted to see my notes and I made some silly remark about her missing class mon. which she just laughed at smiled at. I noticed though after I talked to her at the beginning of class she kept playing with her hair alot..she kept putting it behind her ears or straightening it while listening to the teacher lecture. So what do you guys figure? does she like me any?..I'm gonna ask her out soon but I'm still kinda nervous but I'm seriously gonna do it..just a matter of when and how. Thanks in advance for all those who read and reply and thanks again for all the replies on the last post I gave that gave me a boost of self confidence there. Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted April 1, 2004 Share Posted April 1, 2004 She might like you, take the risk and ask her out. Link to post Share on other sites
Renny_H Posted April 1, 2004 Share Posted April 1, 2004 Alright Alaman, listen up. You’re nervous, ‘coz she’s beautiful, right? That makes it hard to talk casually, so get her email address first and correspond with her, telling her the stuff you couldn’t tell her in person. That’ll give you both more knowledge of each other, and when you know more about each other, you’ll find yourself on the same level, and you want have to walk around trying to impress her. The connection, the bond, has been made. Originally posted by Darkangelism She might like you, take the risk and ask her out. Nonsense. Wait four weeks until asking her out. If she’s still keen on you and brushing her hair or whatever signals you noticed, then it’s a sure bet. I’d definitely be patience and cool about it. You need MORE signals. Save yourself the pain of rejection if things backfire. Keep us updated. But if you manage to get her email address with her remaining energetic, then you’re on the way… To Darkangelism: why would you say such simplistic misguided nonsense? Alaman's got plenty of time to build a solid friendship first. He didn't meet this girl at a bar ad hoc. He's at school. He should take it slow. Geez, man. Your comment annoyed the hell outta me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author alaman19 Posted April 1, 2004 Author Share Posted April 1, 2004 yes Renny she is pretty thats why I'm nervous but I don't walk around trying to impress her..I don't play that game I make witty and humorus remarks a lot if a girl that I like hears it then I guess thats always good...as for email address I'll work on it but we have talked about stuff before I mean she was telling me about how many more classes she's got before graduating and I consider myself on the same intelliegence level Link to post Share on other sites
Author alaman19 Posted April 2, 2004 Author Share Posted April 2, 2004 anyone have anything else to add on this? Link to post Share on other sites
FreeMe Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 Ask her out for coffee - it's not quite as "serious" as a date, but it's a good way to start getting to know someone. Why email when you can just talk in person - she's right there in a class with you. Link to post Share on other sites
judogirl Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 If you find yourself talking to her after class --keep talking and then just casually slip in "wanna get some coffee?"--(great suggestion FreeMe)....but like it's just a pause in the conversation....she'll probably say sure and then you're on a date automatically w/out even realizing it's happening! If you know a little place where you know you can get a seat, head for there...those tables are usually little and make for instant intimacy. Don't try to "act" anything- -just be yourself and talk about what interests you and LISTEN to what she has to say--big points , trust me. You stay there for even 20 minutes you're in great shape to say "hey this is fun, let's do it again sometime" before you leave.. hey the worst she can do is say 'no' but I don't think she will goodluck Judogirl Link to post Share on other sites
Author alaman19 Posted April 3, 2004 Author Share Posted April 3, 2004 thanks but I'm not a big coffee drinker nor alcohol..lol Link to post Share on other sites
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