Author joshextreme Posted March 19, 2011 Author Share Posted March 19, 2011 By adding her again your basically telling her you want to keep in contact. Dont do it. Keep her deleted and blocked. If she really wanted to get ahold of you she'll find a way, regardless. yeah true. thanks for the advice Link to post Share on other sites
Author joshextreme Posted March 19, 2011 Author Share Posted March 19, 2011 I have confirmed that if I set "Post by me" to friends only it'll only block my wall from her. so that means she can see what im posting on my friends wall. good to know lol Link to post Share on other sites
flitzanu Posted March 21, 2011 Share Posted March 21, 2011 good to know...yeah, now you can be sure that she will see everything you say to your friends. i'm sorry dude, but i think you're seriously missing the point of what everyone is telling you. chances are she likely doesnt' CARE what you do or say. and if it's about her, it's very likely to just push her further away anyway. the point isn't "hey let me try to be sneaky and see if she is watching" but rather "hey let me erase this girl from my life so i can try to heal because i don't need to be interacting with her." trust me. i had to delete my page for a month (along with blocking my ex gf) just to try healing. and you know what? it was freeing. as soon as i got back on...it put me back to step one again being concerned with what i say, what she reads, eetc. it isnt' worth it because they don't F'NG care. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joshextreme Posted March 21, 2011 Author Share Posted March 21, 2011 good to know...yeah, now you can be sure that she will see everything you say to your friends. i'm sorry dude, but i think you're seriously missing the point of what everyone is telling you. chances are she likely doesnt' CARE what you do or say. and if it's about her, it's very likely to just push her further away anyway. the point isn't "hey let me try to be sneaky and see if she is watching" but rather "hey let me erase this girl from my life so i can try to heal because i don't need to be interacting with her." trust me. i had to delete my page for a month (along with blocking my ex gf) just to try healing. and you know what? it was freeing. as soon as i got back on...it put me back to step one again being concerned with what i say, what she reads, eetc. it isnt' worth it because they don't F'NG care. I overthink things a lot and when it comes to my ex I get nervous because I know I would do anything to have her back but I also want to show I'm not pathetic guy who needs her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joshextreme Posted March 21, 2011 Author Share Posted March 21, 2011 Update. I took a nap and had a dream of a moment when I thought I was truly in love with her. I woke up and got on fb and completely blocked. I learned that I need to start thinking for myself or more pain is ahead of me. Link to post Share on other sites
EmperorR Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 delete and block i just deactiviated my facebook after seeing a pic of my ex at a mutual friends page f it Link to post Share on other sites
flitzanu Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 awesome dude. it hurts i know, you want to think she's reading nice things you might say, but she isn't. or she reads them and laughs and mocks. think of it that way. there's no part of her reading them and thinking they are amazing. TRUST ME. i wrote pages and pages, none of it EVER mattered because they've already checked out of the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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