She likes me?

[JamesDean5398]

At work, I really don't talk to her. It has been more than 3 years. We just say hi occasionally.

But, I was told by her work friend to talk to her.

We gives each other greetings when we walk by each other without saying a word.

 

I like to ask her out,but I don't wAnt to get rejected. It is also in the work place.

 

The thing I don't like about her is that she has too much energy for me. She is laughing about everything.

 

I like when we have talked to each other without all the laughing.

 

Honestly, she acts like an highschool person still, but she is in her 30,s.

 

Any advice on how to proceed would help.

 

Thank u.

[Eddie Edirol]

1.) if that bugs you about her, dont bother asking her out.

 

2.) Be a grown man, get a set of balls, and stop bieng afraid of rejection. Only women do that. Youre not a woman are you? rejection isnt a big enough deal to allow your ego to get bruised over. Just dont get attached to the idea that she will say yes and you'll be fine.

[Macaw]

Seems like you barely know that woman, yet you already pointed out a quirk of hers that annoys you. Does she have any redeeming qualities you failed to mention, or does she have none that caught your eye?

 

If nothing she does caught your attention so far, she probably isn't right for you. And if her friend talked to you to talk to her, she either believes or the woman downright told her that she has a crush on you, a man she barely knows. That would raise a red flag for me.

 

If you're afraid of she calling you out on any sexual harassment policies your workplace might have, just ask her to join you on a little happy hour after friday's work. You won't get into trouble by that, and if she refuses, you'll know she wasn't into you to begin with.