Balance11 Posted March 18, 2011 Share Posted March 18, 2011 This friend of mine, i've known for about a year now, started off just casually texting, i asked her out, she said she was flattered but wasn't looking for anything then and didnt expect me to wait around, fair enough, move on kinda thing. She started texting me shortly afterwards, awkward at first but over the months its stronger than ever. Text each over numerous times everyday, the kisses went from the normal 1 or 2 to 4 consistently, she's started to phone me as well as texting, see's me at work sometimes (bar/restaurant work). Stuff we talk about is just joking on stuff but also serious stuff she says she hasn't told anyone else. Okay so i dont get this,she has other close male friends who she strongly points out are just her friends, couple days ago i bumped into her in town, spent an hour together before i had to go to work, seemed good, talked alot, she was laughing alot at things i said, hugged and cheek kiss when i went to work. I just don't understand the texting everyday throughout the day, I don't even talk to my other friends of either sex that much, and my dad was at my work before and when I told her who he was (she asked who he was) she went over and started talking to him, really confusing me So what the hell am i to her, friend or more ? Link to post Share on other sites
live_laugh_write Posted March 27, 2011 Share Posted March 27, 2011 I think you should be open with her and ask her about what is going on between you two. Mention how she said she had said she wasn't looking for anything, and see how she responds. She might be trying to figure out just how attracted she is to you. Or she could just be having fun and being friendly. The only way you'll ever really know is if you ask her about it. It'll show her you care about what's going on. She'll give you an honest answer. If she doesn't want to date you, then I would suggest trying to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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