hART Posted March 18, 2011 Share Posted March 18, 2011 So, I'm sure there are a dozen of these. Every relationship I have turns into a friendship. Is there something wrong with my girlishness (I'm female)? Am I picking the wrong men? What can I do to be seen romantically, rather than as a FWB? Is this a sign of poor sexual performance or attractiveness? Does this have to do with the men I choose to date or is it me? directions: Yes, I am serious, you don't have to be in your answer :-) Answer as few of questions as you need to or come up with a unique answer. thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
brebre Posted March 19, 2011 Share Posted March 19, 2011 Maybe you are coming off as a little eager.... like are you doing all of the calling, or most of it? Do you initiate the mettings and such? I think maybe its you, but in a good way, meaning that you can fix the situation. THe next guy comes along, dont call him at all, let him call you. Do not even ask to see him, no matter how badly you want to, or if you are bored. Now if you cange up your tactics and you still have bad luck, then I have no idea. But usually when you act eager, that is a major turnoff for men. They like a challenge, so be one.... Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted March 19, 2011 Share Posted March 19, 2011 It's probably a combination of the men you choose to date and the quickness with which you start to have sex with them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hART Posted March 27, 2011 Author Share Posted March 27, 2011 The first one I waited for a long time, it just died out. Yeah, arg some men are just so forward and then it is my fault for not saying no. Arg. Where are all the good men? Link to post Share on other sites
pevergreen Posted April 1, 2011 Share Posted April 1, 2011 Where are all the good men? Australia. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hART Posted April 10, 2011 Author Share Posted April 10, 2011 Maybe you are coming off as a little eager.... like are you doing all of the calling, or most of it? Do you initiate the mettings and such? I think maybe its you, but in a good way, meaning that you can fix the situation. THe next guy comes along, dont call him at all, let him call you. Do not even ask to see him, no matter how badly you want to, or if you are bored. Now if you cange up your tactics and you still have bad luck, then I have no idea. But usually when you act eager, that is a major turnoff for men. They like a challenge, so be one.... I mostly don't call at all, seriously. It must have to do with my emotions, any negative emotion and men look lost. Link to post Share on other sites
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