grecian Posted March 19, 2011 Share Posted March 19, 2011 This may sound very vague but i would appreciate if you can share a few things that you want to make sure your future spouse has or has to offer to you before you're ready to get married. What are the most important qualities you're looking for? Link to post Share on other sites
denise_xo Posted March 19, 2011 Share Posted March 19, 2011 - financially responsible - sexually compatible - some common goals and shared ideas of how to get there - some shared interests that a couple can spend time on and evolve through together Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted March 19, 2011 Share Posted March 19, 2011 Financial stability Intelligence on par with my own Can communicate wants/needs/desires within the relationship and willing to compromise to meet relationship goals On the same page about "dealbreaker" issues (like smoking, drugs, children) No history or family history of mental illness Compatibility Patience with my energy level or a matching energy level Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted March 19, 2011 Share Posted March 19, 2011 - financially responsible - sexually compatible - some common goals and shared ideas of how to get there - some shared interests that a couple can spend time on and evolve through together Denise's list was good I was just adding my list to hers Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Must be honest, good at compromise, a great listener, my best friend, a great lover with a high sex drive, stubborn, and have a provider mentality. All of which I found in my boyfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Must be stubborn? Yeah that's part of what killed my marriage... stubborn might not be a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Must be stubborn? Yeah that's part of what killed my marriage... stubborn might not be a good thing. When I say stubborn, I mean not a pushover. I need someone who will challenge me and won't bend to my every will. Link to post Share on other sites
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