PelicanPete Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Im starting to have feelings for this girl "Jen" again. We use to be really good friends when we were in elementary school, such good friends we were always teased about being bf/gf, but as the grades went up we started drifting apart and never talked through school. I missed talking to Jen and being around her because it felt like we had such a close connection. I had feelings for her all through school until she changed high schools. I eventually began dating someone because I lost all contact with her, but we didn't work out. After I got over the break up I made a facebook and got back in touch with Jen. We talked a bit about what we've been up to, and I eventually asked if she wanted to get coffee sometime, and yesterday I drove down to her city and met up with her. It was great seeing her again, she insisted on paying for coffee because I made the trip, and we talked non stop for two or three hours, everything from high school to our interests and our future plans. I made her laugh a lot and she always kept eye contact with me and always smiling. She led most of the conversation, she had a lot of questions for me almost like she rehearsed them before I got there. It turns out we have a lot in common, she was really interested in what I was studying in college and has similar morals/beliefs as i do. We went for a walk and walked by a place where one of her best friends was suppose to be because she wanted her to meet me, but she wasn't there. It turns out she will be moving back to my city in about a month when her lease runs out. We connected very easily and it was very easy to talk to her. We eventually ended up back at her house and I asked her if she wanted to go out for dinner, and she was torn because she had to be up early tomorrow. I said it was no problem and that I would take her out some time soon, she hugged me and I left. I left her a message tonight saying I had a great time with her and if i could take her out for dinner sometime soon, and if so what day would be good for her. I don't want her to think of me as a friend even though we were friends when we were kids. I want to make a move on her next time we get together but I don't know if she would be accepting of it or not. Any input/advice/support would be appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
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