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Was This A Lame Excuse To Break Up Or Was He Being Rational?


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ok so ive been seeing this guy for about 2 months. there is a huge age difference, but we really like eachother, his job is requiring him to leave for a few months so he called it off with us because it would have been harder to leave if we stay together and get closer. i know he was being rational and i just wanted to live in the moment and stay. neither of us wanted to but we agreed it was for the best (age difference was no good), i totally miss him and hope someday we will meet again when i am older, its just we are at such different stages and things would never work, i guess im upset because we got along so well, we never fought or anything, and we both still like eachother but shouldnt be together. i know he cares for me but i just feel like if he really loved me he would ignore the age thing? what do u think. maybe it was an excuse.....i dunno but im pretty bummed..help! do u think he will have any regret in leaving. do you think it means he likes me less since he called it off even though we both knew it was coming? HELP i miss him and wish things were different. im totally living by "if u love somethng let it go and if it comes back its yours" but what if he doesnt come back ever?

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i personally dont take a persons age into account, as long as you both get one and click with one another i guess that is what should matter, from what you have said though is the age thing bothers him, and he travels alot for work, if it is meant to be he will come back, if he doesnt you should move on

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Whether or not his reason for terminating your relationship is legitimate, it's over, and that's what needs to be dealt with.

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