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Last year I started chatting with this guy online, we chatted for a few months and everything was fine but then he suddenly stopped talking to me 4 months ago. I haven’t heard from him since.

 

I am over him but I still want to know why he behaved the way he did.

 

A few days ago I found out that he had been chatting with another girl online before he “met” me – he also stopped talking to her abruptly for no reason (he stopped talking to her a few weeks before he met me)

 

I am just curious as to why he would do this – why would he suddenly stop talking to people for no reason?

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Chatting online does NOT equal an actual face-to-face friendship. That being said, it seems that when he senses that he's getting close to you (or the other girl), he clams up and cuts off communication.

 

This is commitment-phobia behind the safety of a computer monitor. Simple as that.

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