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[ldyinterp]

Help! I NEED to know why and why to do. I met my heart just alittle over two years ago. In that time I have been Totally faithful devoted and honest as well as very hardworking. I feel that he may have taken advantage and taken me on my love for him for granted. After the first couple months of him living with me and me paying all the bills to help him get caught up, I found out he"d had gone to the movies on a date with another female. That i9n and of itself would have been OK had I been informed but that didn't come till afterwards. When I did find out out I questioned and was given an explanation IT is only a friend. I am not comfortable with that alittle un-easy. So brought up again....... no reason.

OK so stuff it. then then next incise-nd is an IM which I came up from behind and told him I was going to go take a bath. He immediate;y turned off the monitor. I told him it wasnt necessary and to get back on line and quit being rude. It was obvious it was a female he was talking to ie: two pretty blue eyes He explained it was a friend from Houston who lost a child and needed some consoling. N next week gut instincts questioned him came up with a totally another story. Didnt fly. Ok stuffed that too. next few months go by. Goes in Florida with his boys for a week. Pages me asking me to search his van for something of his and bring it to him. I do that and in the process I find a a totally nude picture of his former girlfriend. By this time its been 7 months we've been together. No viable explanation. I go to Florida confront him he says he's not cleaned out his van in that period. Ok> Don't like it and tell him so. Then Dec comes. I plan a big festive gathering for family gathering go inside my closet to get some special scizzors. There is another batch of pictures of him and some one else. GRRRRRRRRRRR! Explain how all this crap makes me feel and to fix it. Now April go to his office to help him complete his work.. there in lies his ex wife's pictures. OK! We go to Hawaiii get married. Two days later while talking to his friends, he refers to his ex wife as his wife with me standing there! 2 DAYS! Well I really feel important and used. Ok Here we are. I have alot of pent up hurt inside me with no healing from him. Now he needs time to analyze and think for himself so he's moving in with another female. Gee tell me how the heck I am supposed to feel.????????? Help me pleeeeeeze

[carla]

Gee tell me how the heck I am supposed to feel.?????????

You and anyone else in that situation should feel extremly POed. If he has already left you for another woman, look at that as a blessing. Forget him. I don't understand why you would marry him to begin with. I guess it's just one of those things that you can knock down as love making you do a stupid thing. Everyone does something stupid b/c of love from time to time. Anyways move on find someone that will give you the love and respect that you deserve.