trying to get back into this

[PiOver2]

well the one and only post i've made on here was about an ex. after giving it more time/thought about trying to talk to her i concluded i wasn't going to make contact and just start seeing other people.

 

since we've been broken up for a long while and i met many women that mostly turned into just sex partners. i have two girls that are just my friends (and made that perfectly clear to them i hope) i mess around with bc honestly i have physical needs that need to be met. i have no feelings for these girls and dont see myself ever having any bc they arent my type.

 

so basically i get girls numbers and i don't know what to do. well duh, the obvious thing is to call/text them but when? last number i got the girl didnt mention she had a bf and when we started talking and got her facebook there was a "in a relationship with *insert name here*" so i told her wouldnt have it been easier to just tell me you had a bf? her response was like ohh most guys i talk to i become friends with....sorry sweetheart i didnt get your number so i could come hang out with you and your boyfriend.

 

okay well i met this girl today while i was waiting outside my professors office. i asked her if she was there to see him to. she said yes then started a conversation with asking me why i was there to see him and what class i have with him. after i was done seeing him i waited out in the hall fir her to get done bc i wanted to walk with her and talk. she asks questions about me and soon enough i flip it and ask questions about herself...we all know they like to talk about themselves ....ended up finding out she lives across the street from my apartment here at school and only like 10 minutes from me at home, in Philly. so once we got to her destination i asked for her number saying may be we can hang out sometime. she gave it to me and i called her phone real fast (the quick two rings and hang up) so she had my number.

 

so now i dont even know what to do. i want to text her but i dont want to come off too strong. on the other hand, if shes actually interested in me would it even matter when i contacted her?