Author Notspoken Posted March 30, 2011 Author Share Posted March 30, 2011 Well, I commend you for being accepting of that. It just goes to show that in certain circumstances even "good" people -in extreme emotional distress or discontent, are capable of compromising the parameters they set out for themselves. I hope you will be able to work out your anger and re-draw the demarcation lines. I think it will make it a lot less complicated for everyone, especially for you. Thanks again Tami. I'm usually not an angry person, but this infidelity stuff can put someone in a mental ward, ya know? Link to post Share on other sites
tami-chan Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 Thanks again Tami. I'm usually not an angry person, but this infidelity stuff can put someone in a mental ward, ya know? Oh sure....but you know, you are better than many, at least, you know what exactly you need to do. Many don't...and they spend so much time mulling, crying, agonizing over what to do.... Link to post Share on other sites
Richard Friedman Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 No shame in messing with her head if it makes you feel better. At this point you gotta look out for number one. Link to post Share on other sites
jodes Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 She cheated with someone who was supposed to be my friend for three months, the whole summer last year. She's been trying to be remorseful but I don't want to deal with her no more. I layed it out on her last night. Told her about my resentment, how my anger is not subsiding and how she messed up everything, to how she treated me shortly after I found out about her and that bastard. Told her that sex with her is disgusting and that it reminds me of her affair. She told me she was very sorry for doing this to me and that she hopes I let her continue showing me that she will put me first. I said no she's of no value to me and I will divorce her. I left her in the bed to cry and slept downstairs. I ignored her all day today. I'm mad, the end. hi, i think you are being very strong, by doing this. u must be hurting so bad inside, and for you to actually try and work through things with your wife, is very brave. i would probably be the same as you - i am a very forgiving person, but i could never trust my partner again if he cheated. and without trust, as far as im concerned, there is no relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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