AOXmom0304 Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 I do things around the house in my own time...I'm busier then what I used to be and can't get things done in what my Mom thinks is a good time, yet when she wants to do something...she'll take forever until she gets it done. She then gets mad at me because I didn't do something she wanted me to, and then my parents get into an arguement and she says it is my fault if they get divorced, then she threatened me that she will find a way to take my daughter away from me. She has been doing this since I was in like 5th grade, and she used to say and sometimes still does say that it is because I'm ld...then says I can do something, then goes back to saying it is because I'm LD. She also keeps predicting that I will be like her family, itz just soooo overwhelming, and I want to move out and move on with my life, but I'm not financially ready to actually pay rent, I pay bills, do things for my daughter, and am getting ready to go back to school. And yesterday we went off on each other....I didn't get the dishes done in time for her approval and she got pissed off and said she wouldn't babysit when she told me she would and I already made a goal of going to dance class that night...I got soooo pissed off that I ended up pushing her though. And she says I don't care about anything because I don't mean it when I'm sorry, I'm just not that emotional when I'm in front of my parents, I always try to be strong. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted April 11, 2004 Share Posted April 11, 2004 Whatever the disagreements are between you and your mother, pushing her is not the answer. (Unless you want your daughter to grow up and slap you around too.) Sounds like you and your mother are both under some stress and not dealing with it well. You're not meeting your commitments to each other. You both need to learn to keep your end of the bargain. Any chance that you can get some family counseling? Link to post Share on other sites
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