A special someone. Feels more illusive when so much of life is not that bad...

[Mrlonelyone]

I am very lucky in a number of ways. Not just the trivial "but for the grace of God" I would live in ***ashima Japan kind of way. (Because those poor people have real true and actual problems of apocalyptic proportions.)

 

I have a community that more or less accepts me as I am and knows me from many years to be a good honest and decent person. I have no enemies.

 

I have long time friends...who I don't see so much of but I have them. When we do see each other it's like we never parted.

 

I have a family that though there can be friction loves me.

 

I have coworkers and colleagues who I respect and they respect me.

 

I have the friendship, and respect of my local LGBT community.

 

Today the several women who work at the I-Hop by my house all complemented me on my looks...

 

However that makes me feel the one thing I don't have even more acutely...a significant other. Even as my logical brain tells me that I should feel good about and be thankful for what I have. It makes me feel even more strange to realize that I look decent, clearly my social skills are at least average, yet I can't find anyone. If I was just awkward therapies can change that...my problem is no one available, interesting, and interested. At best I get two out of three of those.

[Mrlonelyone]

 

I am in search of someone who can find out that I am a multiracial, bisexual, bigendered, theoretical physicist...

 

IF they don't react like this:love:

 

Could they at least react like this or this

 

What I seem to get out there is too too much of

 

I need to just stop trying to date anyone and withdraw into my work.

[cerridwen]

 

I am in search of someone who can find out that I am a multiracial, bisexual, bigendered, theoretical physicist...

 

IF they don't react like this:love:

 

Could they at least react like this or this

 

What I seem to get out there is too too much of

 

I need to just stop trying to date anyone and withdraw into my work.

 

Come on out to San Francisco, Mr. LonelyOne.

 

You wouldn't get too many of us batting an eye at your self-description and you'd likely get a fair share of :)s.