Why do women always dump men because "they don't feel the same anymore"

[turokturok5]

It seems really common on these forums and through friends/family that a lot of guys are dumped because the woman just "doesn't feel the same anymore" or "just doesn't feel the spark" i don't really understand it. How can they suddenly lose feelings, i know they probably think about doing the dumping prior to actually doing it and thats why they move on so fast, but why would you agree to date someone who you know is really into you, only to shut them down and break them within a short period of time?

[betterdeal]

Because things change. People change.

 

Everyone has their reasons for everything they do and, generally, we all think we're good at heart, so when something hurts us we tend to blame someone or something else for that pain, because we're good and did our best, so it must be someone else's fault. But if both of you did you best, with the best of intentions, no-one is to blame. We can change ourselves to better respond to things in the future, but we can't change other people to make them suit us.

[PegNosePete]

Often it's because they have feelings or feel the spark for someone else.

 

Not always, but often.

[Ross PK]

Women have their complete pick of the men. So, they get bored easily staying with one man, and when someone better comes along, they can just easily get them instead.

[betterdeal]

Women have their complete pick of the men. So, they get bored easily staying with one man, and when someone better comes along, they can just easily get them instead.

 

Is that what your mother did?

[Ross PK]

Is that what your mother did?

 

Why are you being like that?

[Ross PK]

No answer I see.

[betterdeal]

No answer I see.

 

I was having a crap.

 

Now, why am I being like what? Well, to start, I think your theory is untrue. I also think it can be easily proved by looking at the evidence of women in our own lives. My mother wasn't like that. I figure there's a high chance you do have a mother and I'd like to know if she fits your theory.

 

So, does she?

[Ross PK]

I was having a crap.

 

Now, why am I being like what? Well, to start, I think your theory is untrue. I also think it can be easily proved by looking at the evidence of women in our own lives. My mother wasn't like that. I figure there's a high chance you do have a mother and I'd like to know if she fits your theory.

 

So, does she?

 

Lol, obviously you're just trolling.

 

Not sure why you've decided to start picking on me, but oh well, you've made the wrong choice anyway.

[PegNosePete]

Well dude you just insulted 50% of the world's population I don't think that was a smart move.

[samsungxoxo]

Dumping a man because ''I don't feel the same anymore'' is a good reason to break-up. Otherwise, I would feel trapped and it wouldn't be fair as I would be wasting both his and my time.

 

As for why this depends? Simple: If the relationships hasn't developed that much and stays the same it can be boring.

Ex: Guy talks and acts the same as when he was 20 years but he's almost 30 years old.... there aren't any changes and so it's going no where.

The older, the difference in thoughts, goals, and expectations.

 

It's mostly if the guy hasn't done enough to keep the sparks going... otherwise don't think there would a reason to dump him (unless he cheats).

[Ross PK]

Well dude you just insulted 50% of the world's population I don't think that was a smart move.

 

I was just telling it like it is. It's up to you and the other guy, on how you take it.

[betterdeal]

Lol, obviously you're just trolling.

 

Not sure why you've decided to start picking on me, but oh well, you've made the wrong choice anyway.

 

No answer, I see.

[betterdeal]

I was just telling it like it is.

 

Ergo, his mum is like this.

 

It's up to you and the other guy, on how you take it.

 

I take it as a pile of arrant nonsense that doesn't stand up to even the slightest of scrutiny.

[Love Struck Rob]

In my experience, a woman will only dump a man if they are not being fully satisfied. And I don't just mean sexually (although that is a very big part of it), I'm talking love love and emotion here.

 

A woman wants to feel loved to emotionally fulfilled, and this is probably what they go more for rather than looks, whereas guys tend to go more for physical attraction.

 

The upside is that a man can learn to be better at giving love, emotion and sexual satisfcation to a woman. Do this and they won't need to look anywhere else. If you need somewhere to look, just google Bobby Bradshaw's 2GTS - study it hard, and learn from what his methods teach.

[Ross PK]

No answer, I see.

 

No, she didn't.

 

I see you didn't defend yourself that post.

 

Case closed.

[Ross PK]

Ergo, his mum is like this.

 

I'm sorry that you both 'chose' to take it that way.

 

Ergo, his mum is like this.

 

 

 

I take it as a pile of arrant nonsense that doesn't stand up to even the slightest of scrutiny.

 

Or maybe you just find it too hard to comprehend.

[betterdeal]

No, she didn't.

 

But she is a woman, and all women just flit from man to man on a whim, so she must be fickle. That's just how it is. Right?

 

I see you didn't defend yourself that post.

 

That's right. I didn't.

 

Case closed.

 

Where case means your mind.

[betterdeal]

I'm sorry that you both 'chose' to take it that way.

 

Are you taking offence to the application of your own principle to your own mother?

 

Or maybe you just find it too hard to comprehend.

 

Maybe. We have two premisses and I have drawn a logical conclusion. Feel free to explain the flaw in my logic:

 

Premiss 1: Women get bored easily and find someone better and move on.

Premiss 2: Your mum is a woman.

Conclusion: Your mum gets bored easily and finds someone better and moves on.

[Ross PK]

Are you taking offence to the application of your own principle to your own mother?

 

Yeah I took offense, so well done to you. Feel better?

 

Not that that has anything to do with what you quoted though.

[Ross PK]

Maybe. We have two premisses and I have drawn a logical conclusion. Feel free to explain the flaw in my logic:

 

Premiss 1: Women get bored easily and find someone better and move on.

Premiss 2: Your mum is a woman.

Conclusion: Your mum gets bored easily and finds someone better and moves on.

 

I love your trolling style. Can you give me any tips?

[PegNosePete]

I love your trolling style. Can you give me any tips?

Maybe you should work on your social skills.

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t267979

You seem to have a very good understanding of women, for someone who has never had one?

[Ross PK]

Maybe you should work on your social skills.

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t267979

You seem to have a very good understanding of women, for someone who has never had one?

 

What does that have to do with anything?

[betterdeal]

Yeah I took offense, so well done to you. Feel better?

 

Yes, thanks, given that you offended my mother, sisters, friends, colleagues, I take satisfaction in pointing out how the inherent nastiness in your comments can be applied to your nearest and dearest and see you not liking it either.

 

Not that that has anything to do with what you quoted though.

 

It has everything to do with what you said.

[betterdeal]

I love your trolling style. Can you give me any tips?

 

Sure. You read philosophy and pay particular attention to the logic module, then when you find a statement you find to be fallacious you present your counter-argument to the other party. If they can't find a flaw in your counter-argument it is therefore safe to assume their argument to begin with was the arrant nonsense you took it to be.