TwilightSky Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 So, my 26th birthday is fast approaching. I'm still a virgin with zip experience with women. I recall, I had a Dr. appt the other day, even after checking in a different receptionist made an effort to walk past me saying the Dr. would be with me shortly, all bubbly and with a smile on her face. Perhaps she was just being polite (most likely), but it seemed different than that, my point was I couldn't even match her supposed level of enthusiasm/confidence. I completely lacked the confidence to interact normally, I know my behavior is utterly shutting me off from any dating possibilities. I'm too abnormally lacking in proper confidence levels, which outwardly manifests itself with anxiety symptoms. When I become nervous this adversely effects my speech patterns. I transform into a stuttering idiot, which understandably makes them uncomfortable, that is when I actually am force to talk to them. I don't know to do anymore, I fear my anxiety is only getting worse. Does anyone have any useful advice? Maybe from someone who has gone through a similar situation? Link to post Share on other sites
MistaDynamic Posted March 27, 2011 Share Posted March 27, 2011 (edited) First thing you need to do is get out of your head and develop some self confidence. You need to change your perception of the world and yourself. Value Yourself As A Man http://www.theurbanrenaissanceman.com/tariq/15.mp3 Building Confidence (Day 1) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JH3QF2-fgYU Building Confidence (Day 2) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmNbv3wmpz8 Building Confidence (Day 3) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uaAef5Dmtto Building Confidence (Day 4) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1TETIK90DA Edited March 27, 2011 by MistaDynamic Link to post Share on other sites
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