fadeIntoMe Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 i have a curiousity about something.. obviously i am aware that you gouys do not know my man personally. but i thought i would go ahead and ask anyway.. my guy has always said that he hasn't ever really been a boob guy. i do not have a big chest. the thing is, he can't keep his hands off them. it's starting to get annoying. even when i flat out tell him to bug off, he always tries to grab my chest. don't get me wrong, i'm glad it's my chest he's grabbing.. but he is excessive about it. what is up with his obession? lol Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 He may just think you are joking when you tell him NO and he thinks its all in good fun. Maybe you should seriously set him down and tell him that you are flattered, and maybe you don't want him to stop completely, but you would like him to limit the groping because it sincerely bothers you sometimes. My husband used to do that and he thought it was all just soooo funny! I talked to him and pleaded with him time and time again, but finally I sat down with him, took the remote out of his hands and turned off the TV (he knew I was serious at that point) and said those dreaded "we need to talk" words. I explained that sometimes its painful, and sometimes I just don't like it, but I didn't want him to stop completely. He finally got it and quit. He used to snap my bra too (like a dang 12 y/o) and he only stopped that after I fired a rubber-band at his balls and got a bulls-eye! Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Originally posted by HokeyReligions He used to snap my bra too (like a dang 12 y/o) and he only stopped that after I fired a rubber-band at his balls and got a bulls-eye! ACK! That's grounds for divorce Link to post Share on other sites
carla Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 he always tries to grab my chest he can't keep his hands off them And you find this a problem how? Enjoy it while it lasts. Link to post Share on other sites
carla Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Freud commented that women have penial envey, he never mentioned boob envey. In this day in age he would be classed as a male shovenest pig. Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 o, man! mine does that as well - in public, too! it's embarrasing, but fun. enjoy while it lasts; it makes me feel like a randy teenager. Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 jenny your man gropes you in piblic and you dont have a problem with that? wow. Link to post Share on other sites
DerangedAngel Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 I don't think I'd date a man that wouldn't 'grope' me in public. Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Originally posted by DerangedAngel I don't think I'd date a man that wouldn't 'grope' me in public. well i guess that counts me out, i wouldnt do it, ever to anybody, if they expected it i would leave. Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 well, it's not right out in the open, we're not 'yuppies gone wild' or anything, just a quick grope on the way to or from the car, y'know? i'm with DA though - most of my boyfriends have wanted to touch all the time. other DA: why not? as long as it's discreet? Link to post Share on other sites
DerangedAngel Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 well, it's not right out in the open, we're not 'yuppies gone wild' or anything, just a quick grope on the way to or from the car, y'know? Yeah, that's the way it's been with most of my boyfriends. It's exciting to touch in a public place, and you don't have to do it while everyone's gawking at you to feel that way. It's not too hard to be discreet about it either. I love the attention, and I don't think it's rude at all if you aren't doing it for the whole world to see, you know. -Deranged Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 i dont want to hijack the thread so i cant answer that here, jenny. I had started a thread about me hijacking but it got pulled. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Originally posted by Darkangelism i dont want to hijack the thread so i cant answer that here, jenny. It's relevant to a discussion on rack-groping. Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 my answer to the wuestion will cause people to ask me questios and it will get off-topic. Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 i don't think so - the original poster is seeking to understand rack gropery as a concept - your manifesto against it might help a lot. plus, i'm just curious and demand satisfaction. <pulls off glove> Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 ok fine, i cave, well i thin it should not be for public display, i hate seeing other people do it, two i dont like touching in general, i am even off putting about hugs from my girls. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 I don't care for seeing people make out hardcore in public, that's annoying, but hugging, holding hands, little kisses, that's all fine and dandy with me. And the occassional ass-spank/grab. I'm a fan of the wandering hand in movie theaters, though. Link to post Share on other sites
sonofhud Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin And the occassional ass-spank/grab. I love that! Thats my fav pastime or something.... Anyways, Id prolly grab your rack too, if I was him. But if you are just sitting there watching a movie and he started rubbing your rack the whole time....he has some issues.....or if you go out to eat and he reaches across the table and startes carressing them, he has some issues. Thats just rude. Racks are fun to grab. Have you ever grabbed one? Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 The deal comes down to this fade.....IF his actions make you feel ridiculed or not respected.....you have a right to say his actions are not acceptable. It's YOUR call......... People are not prone to change. This may be as good as it gets. If it is NOT making you happy or feeling special....maybe this isn't the right relationship for you. I know it would not be the right relationship for me!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 totally agreed with arabess. that is the most relevant point, actually. i'm curious about sheer numbers - how *many* times does he do it and how many would you permit? Link to post Share on other sites
sonofhud Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 yah thats what i meant to say....its up to you. Its your rack..... Link to post Share on other sites
carla Posted April 4, 2004 Share Posted April 4, 2004 well i guess that counts me out, i wouldnt do it, ever to anybody, if they expected it i would leave. That's why your still a virgin. Sorry I couldn't resist. Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted April 4, 2004 Share Posted April 4, 2004 Originally posted by carla That's why your still a virgin. Sorry I couldn't resist. its not like ill be in a situation where it would be an issue anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
carla Posted April 4, 2004 Share Posted April 4, 2004 You'll have your day. And when it does happen and you fall in love and are wandering around like a sex straved puppy dog you'll be groping boobs, and hugging and kissing in public. Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted April 4, 2004 Share Posted April 4, 2004 Originally posted by carla You'll have your day. And when it does happen and you fall in love and are wandering around like a sex straved puppy dog you'll be groping boobs, and hugging and kissing in public. not anytime soon. Link to post Share on other sites
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