Thanks for your comments to my "Obsessing with my b/f's ex girlfriend"

[GirlyGirl008]

..... I think the best thing to do is just ignore her. I have erased all my profiles, and will do my best not to be concerned with hers. It is hard though, I must admit...maybe I am just a curious person. I think I have "found out" too much information about her over these 4 years. I wish I didn't know anything! I know she wants confrontation because months ago, in one of our email bashing sessions, we both agreed to stop putting online profiles up. She recently got engaged so she put some huge profile up, probably to get me to email her to refer to our earlier agreement, as she will then ask questions about our life...I know...its stupid, shouldn't have even gotten this far! To prove how unbalanced she is, a while back, she set up an email address and sent me an email, disguised as one of my relatives, to get me on messenger. It was a perfectly normal email, so I thought nothing of it (my last name is uncommon). After a couple of hours of instant messaging, I got a bit suspicious when the conversation turned into very nosey personal questions. So, me, the internet geek I am, tried to break into the account. With my boyfriends help, we cracked the secret question and got in....so it was her! So I sent an email saying "I know it's you", she replied saying, "I am his ex, what do I care" Little did she know, she was totally busted and I changed the password to the email! hehe. My boyfriend was soooo embarrassed to think that she would go this far to do this! Maybe this will stop because she is now engaged, maybe it will make her secure...I hope so! Cause if 4 yrs down the road this is still going on, I will freak! I still don't understand her thought pattern though...I don't keep ANY tabs on my ex's, I could care less. More recently, she even sent my boyfriend an email through one of those school websites, asking him to post his profile...?? I don't get it!! So, I emailed her and asked. She says she doesn't know why she did it, she is happy in her relationship of 4 yrs and DOES NOT want him back...but if you were, why would you keep doing these things??? I love my boyfriend and would never think of pulling this with my ex's, especially when she says that it was such a bad relationship & they always fought anyway. I'm sure her boyfriend has no clue about these occurances either. He would probably get really mad if he knew!....Maybe I could take a psycology course to help me figure this out...I have been racking my brain! Any advise?

[dixiepix]

Tell her not to contact you any further and you need to let her go. It seems the both of you have an obsession. It doesn't really matter if her current boyfriend knows or not, if they break up, she'll be worse of a nightmare for you. Let her go before she desroys the relationship you have.