Being Single Frustration

[rabbit0326]

Just looking for some help... I am having a hard time finding a girl that I can date, I am single and have been for a long time and would like to change it, obviously being single for such a long time I do not have many experiences when it comes to this but I am learning. However frustration is growing every time I try something new or approach girls I just don't know whats missing I fail to deliver. Ive never really had a girlfriend (never really wanted one) until now... I'm getting past my twenties now and can't ignore this part of my life.

 

I can handle my own when I talk with girls... even attractive ones and I'm tall, and slim/athletic, a good mature outlook on life and normal guy that likes to have some fun and I try to be myself the best I can. I still get a little bit nervous around girls but I guess its normal I learned to control it though.

 

I thought that at some point something would pan out but I just have no luck at all... all my friends are happily married and have been for years and my few single friends really have no problems grabbing a girl from a night out and going home with them, It seems like I am the only one who cant figure this out.

 

It seems even my friends are pressuring me and wondering why I am single... well I know the answer as much as they do... but its getting to a point where my friends like to make fun of it, I understand that guys give eachother a hard time but its in a way thats really hurtful to me sometimes and it seems a night out with my friends they try to exploit this for thgeir own gain when we hang with girls... ignoring me and putting me on the spot. I never treat anyone like that but thats the way i get treated.

 

Its really getting to me for some reason I just can't make it happen with anyone, even in conversation I do a great job sometimes but the girls are always... meh whatever. Its not like Im totally botching all my interactions with the girls I approach. Maybe im meeting the wrong kind... I don't dunno.

 

I try not to let it get me down, but its tough seeing everyone having success and fun with the opposite sex and feels like im missing out, I do get depressed but I have to try really hard to check it and its getting harder and harder.

 

I wanna resolve this it bothers me quite a bit.