nitram100 Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 HI, first post. Ive been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now, we were each others first in every aspect. Im very protective of her. She has always been quite clingy, but i didnt mind it, always talked about marriage, babys, engagement etc, up until recently that is, my aunt died and we didnt speak to each other for a few days, which then developed into 2 weeks of unusual texts from her "ring you 2moro", "sorry didnt ring you yesterday" etc. So i just came out with it and asked her what was wrong, it took a while for her to tell me that she wanted a break and some space cause she felt like she was getting married and im only 19! in her words, of course i was totally confused, and said that i couldnt do that because i cant live without this girl, so we decided to talk and patched things up. She was always the one clinging to me and going on about marriage! i was so confused, i shud have been the one saying those words if anyone. We're fine now, but i found out that during this 2 week break she was with her mates alot and going out and drinking which she didnt do much when with me because i dont go out with her because i despise alcohol. I just dont understand what created this complete change of heart. Could it be that she really enjoyed the time with her mates and that i need to make the effort to go out with her to pubs etc? I just cant stand the places that her mates go, there all dirty girls that have slept with 8+ guys and get drunk, i just dont think its the right atmosphere for my girl, who has only slept with me and doesnt really drink, i just get worried that somethings gonna happen that will end the relationship. CONFUSED sorry for rambling Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Talk to her about your feelings. Maybe you two can agree to times where she goes out with her friends and you go out with yours... but don't be telling her what you think of her friends. (Even if it is true). Best of luck and hope it all works out! Link to post Share on other sites
Author nitram100 Posted April 3, 2004 Author Share Posted April 3, 2004 cheers for the reply, your right we need to come to some mutual terms and i need to tell ehr how i feel. Thanks again Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 You are most welcome and I do hope you are able to come up with some mutual terms. Again, best of luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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