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Foreveryours10

Alright let me start this off by giving a little bit of my past so about a couple months ago me and my ex-boyfriend broke up of two years and he felt the need to let me know he cheated on me twice and yada yada so needless to say i do feel rather insecure about myself and have a bit of trusting issues here. So now about 2 weeks ago while home on spring break I met someone that i work with. i gave him my number he texted me we hung out everything was fine like he brought his brother with him and and the entire time his brother kept being like wow she is hot i want that and he would just ignore him and talk to me when he would do that. So then we would text and a couple days later we went out just ourselves and everything was fine and he came to my house and we just talked and hung out and then at the end of the night i kissed him. After that we have texted and saw each other a little bit and i wanted to hang out the night before i left to go back to school but he was hanging out with friends. i was a little pissed by this over the fact i figured if he liked me enough he would want to hang out with me but idk maybe i am trying to push it too much figuring we just met. Since i have been back at school he will generally text me first and once in awhile i will text him first and we talk on the phone once in awhile. I have come to the conclusion he isn't much of a texter and will just say yep, k, and carry on the conversation about half the time. Like i said i didnt like smokers so he said he would quit smoking for me and thus far has been doing a great job. He said he missed me and wanted to see me but he only has one day off and i said it was pointless to drive 3 hours to come out for one day and then to have to leave by the end of the night to get back to work for the morning. He has said to me that he likes me alot but with my trusting issues i have a hard time believing him so being a psycho girl ill play little mind games and be all like i just want to be with you and nobody else and he just said me to and i got a little pissed about it cause i guess i was expecting him to be a little more enthusiastic over it so i was like well you dont have to lol like we can just be friends and then he was like no i want to be with you and then we talked a little more after that and then the conversation kind of dwindled down to a stop. I don't know i just feel like if he really liked me wouldn't he want to talk to me more like don't get me wrong when he calls me on the phone he goes on and on and doesn't stop but when we are texting i feel like he then hates me lol. Keep in mind that little convo just happened yesterday so i figured today if he wants to talk to me then he can text me otherwise im not going to. I don't know i guess i just feel confused if whether he really does like me or just lying i don't know i mean i asked him there is no real purpose to lie now when were just in the beginning stages of getting to know each other but i just feel like wouldn't he want to talk to me more or something i don't know maybe i am just being too much?

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