DreamerGirl27 Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 that's all... just thought I would share Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 There is way more to it than that... You want to get married... or you want to BE married? Is it just the wedding you're looking forward to? Is it having a family and a house, and living the "dream"? Life is different things to different people. Link to post Share on other sites
BeginAgain Posted April 6, 2011 Share Posted April 6, 2011 I don't know if I want to be married. Sometimes I do and sometimes I just want a lifelong LTR. Either way I'd want kids. Link to post Share on other sites
zakfar Posted April 6, 2011 Share Posted April 6, 2011 Good to know that you want to get married. The real question is that, do you have someone with whom you want to get married? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 7, 2011 Author Share Posted April 7, 2011 Good to know that you want to get married. The real question is that, do you have someone with whom you want to get married? yes, but he doesn't even like me like that. We're just friends. Link to post Share on other sites
BeginAgain Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 yes, but he doesn't even like me like that. We're just friends. Then find someone else. You might want to try putting some effort into it and go outside of your circle. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 There is way more to it than that... You want to get married... or you want to BE married? Is it just the wedding you're looking forward to? Is it having a family and a house, and living the "dream"? Life is different things to different people. In that case I want to "be" married. The ceremony and all that scares the crap out of me now that you mentioned it that way. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 7, 2011 Author Share Posted April 7, 2011 Then find someone else. You might want to try putting some effort into it and go outside of your circle. No! There is no one else. As long as I remain friends with him, I'm never gonna be able to get over him. I don't want anyone else. and I've tried. I've been talking to 2 other guys now and I'm using both of them to make the one I want jealous. actually make that 3... I'm friends with multiple guys, but no guy contacts me as much as he does and it's never me reaching out first, it's always him. Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 Ok, thanks for letting me know. I'll sleep better tonight. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 8, 2011 Author Share Posted April 8, 2011 Ok, thanks for letting me know. I'll sleep better tonight. figured you would Link to post Share on other sites
Annoioso Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 (edited) No! There is no one else. As long as I remain friends with him, I'm never gonna be able to get over him. I don't want anyone else. and I've tried. I've been talking to 2 other guys now and I'm using both of them to make the one I want jealous. actually make that 3... I'm friends with multiple guys, but no guy contacts me as much as he does and it's never me reaching out first, it's always him. Wow, you are way too immature to be married. A normal guy of worth would see that you are occupied with other guys and would not want to waste his time on you or want other guys' leftovers. If I was the other guy and saw the lineup of guys wanting to chat you up, whose attention you openly lapped up, that would permanently shut down all desire for a relationship with you. Edited April 8, 2011 by Annoioso Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 8, 2011 Author Share Posted April 8, 2011 Wow, you are way too immature to be married. A normal guy of worth would see that you are occupied with other guys and would not want to waste his time on you or want other guys' leftovers. If I was the other guy and saw the lineup of guys wanting to chat you up, whose attention you openly lapped up, that would permanently shut down all desire for a relationship with you. Okay let me update you... I'm only interested in one guy right now, but he has friend zoned me, so I'm trying to move on with other guys and it is not working. I still like the one guy. Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 that's all... just thought I would share I agree. marriage would be nice Link to post Share on other sites
zakfar Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Spend some time with him. You should prove to him that you are worthy for being his wife. Then you might become one. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Gosh this is actually a fun post ( with commentaries too boot!). But I am sensing someone is putting the cart before the horse..... Or better still the cart is there with no horse to pull it. Sorta a mute point to say " I want to get married!" (like its an epiphany) without a suitor in the house. I personally want to win the lottery and be on beach somewhere, but neither are going to happen simply by me saying it..... Link to post Share on other sites
BeginAgain Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Daddy I want a pony with a pink mane who gives rainbow kisses. Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 (edited) She wants a good boning. If she's near Cambridge, UK, I'd love to help. Edited April 9, 2011 by betterdeal Link to post Share on other sites
BeginAgain Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 She wants a good boning. If she's near Cambridge, UK, I'd love to help. She's too crazy for something so simple. Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 She's intellectualized it too much. A nice big cock up her will relieve a lot of the tension. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 9, 2011 Author Share Posted April 9, 2011 You guys are disgusting. Link to post Share on other sites
BeginAgain Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 You guys are disgusting. If you think such tame discussion is disgusting then you have no hope of getting a man or keeping him. Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 You guys are disgusting. Absolutely. I have a reputation for being filthy. Link to post Share on other sites
zakfar Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 Instead of telling us that you want to get married, tell him that. If you want to keep the fun of him proposing you, and don't want to tell him yourself, than you can choose some other methods. Now what can be those scenarios, it depends on the options you have. Most important thing is that, if he would also go for marrying you? Does he (at least believe that he) loves you? Is he serious in having a long-term relationship with you? Does he have friends? Can you inform any of his friends/siblings how you feel about him (to inform him indirectly that you would love to marry him)? You can find out other options as well to inform him based on the scenario that you have. Wish you good luck 1 Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 The OP is being bashed and that's not fair. So what if she dates other men while waiting for the man she wants? Many people do this. A friend of mine married a man she doesn't love because the man she loved told her he never wanted to marry. So now she sleeps with the man she wants behind her husband's back. Oh, the irony. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 God, I am not ready to be married, you sure as Hell aren't. Sorry kid, thems the breaks. Do some more introspective work and stop focusing so much on Mr. (Not) Right. Link to post Share on other sites
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