JustLoveMeHermann Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) Most women when they are young dream about there wedding day. I was proposed to 3 times and it just never worked out. The last guy cheated on me with his baby momma. So I went on a trip with his sister to visit someone she wanted to see. Me and that girl ended up going out the next day where I happen to have met my husband of 6 going on 7 months now. He is a total new experience for me. He is African. Lets just say my ex's sister let me stranded where I was. So me and my hubby started to date. He asked me to marry him and I was excited but also just a lil held back because of the experiences I had. My friend I was staying kept telling me your hubby is gay, and I said no he isn't. Well me and hubby didn't live together for 2 months because of the money situation but finally moved together, but the more I seen the more I was like OMG. So I didn't want to just ask him, I wanted him to tell me. So i got him to finally tell me he was BI. I told him I don't care just please tell me when you get the urge to sleep with a man and let me know. But lately I feel like he is hiding things from me. I love this man more then you can imagine and many people tell me I should leave him but I am not the type of person to give up on my marriage nor my hubby. I just wish I could get him to feel like he can tell me these things. I even hinted about having a threesome with another guy who is gay so he doesn't touch me just my hubby. I mean I wanna watch for a lil and then join in. What am I suppose to do? Edited April 3, 2011 by JustLoveMeHermann Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted April 5, 2011 Share Posted April 5, 2011 i got him to finally tell me he was BI. The only reason people like this tell you they are "BI" is to indicate that they have or will cheat on you. There is exactly no other cause for them to inform a spouse that they are "BI". Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 How did your husband react when you mentioned the threesome? I think that would be a bad idea IMO, especially if you may suspect that he is gay. Personally, I think he is lying about being Bi. How is your sex life? Link to post Share on other sites
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