Menners Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 I have a very weird problem and would like some feedback from anyone. Feel free to respond. I have a band member that's a little older than I am but we get along just fine. We both like and have the same things in common and we also confide in one another for just about everything. The kind of relationship I want with a man. I never had any romantic feelings for this guy except until he mentioned to me that he always had something for me. I hate to admit it but I guess I did have something for him as well but always tried to denied it because we were friends. But now that it's been a few months that we are dating, I have a problem that don't know how to cope with it. He fell in love with me because I'm so easy-going, open-minded, playful and fun to talk to. But now I've noticed that I've become tense and very very shy towards him. I actually blush and don't speak much like I did. What's going on?? Can anyone give me some feedback. I don't want to screw things up with him and have him leave me because I've changed. My feelings for him have become greater. Menners Link to post Share on other sites
Emily55555 Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 you should tell him how you feel so he can understand when you are not talking to him as much. If you talk to him about the problem you may feel better. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 Truly, he hasn't fallen in love with you if he's anything but flattered about your change. You're nervous, it's the advent of a new attraction. You'll get over it, everyone does. If, by the time the butterflies have turned to moths, you can approach him without flushed skin, and he's still attracted to you, it looks like you'll have a nice relationship grounded in a strong friendship. Best of luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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