kskalyani Posted April 5, 2011 Share Posted April 5, 2011 Dear friends... I am kumar and m 27 years old.m a mechanical engineer.I am in a very hectic situation. actually 6 months back i met a girl who is marreid and30 years old..we sepnt a great time together in a function she lives 500kms away from me. after reaching her home she called me frequently.and one day she proposed me and told me that though i am a married lady i love you truely. i dont have any expectation from you. just its my true feeling for you. since than we are in relationship.i respect her feelings. but since last 1 month she has changed her behaviour she usually avoid me by all means... i asked her for it and i came to know inddirectly that she tries to go near her husband and he responded the same.earlier her husband did not consider her anyways.. still he is the same but she feels like that.. her husband consdier her for bedroom requirement only... now plz let me know what should i do?? i love her more than me..i am really very upset.. we fight ofter for this as she avoid my phone and msgs and give me so many excuses which she didnt earlier... she doesnt want to break up this relation and she tells me that plz try to understand me i am stuck with my family duties so can not spare much time for you but it does not mean that i dont love you.. should i believe her or exit from this relation.. we cant live without each other... plz reply Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted April 5, 2011 Share Posted April 5, 2011 Being in an unhealthy relationship (and that is what an affair is) will more often than not leave you damaged, rather than whole and fulfilled. I think you need to think about what that means and make your decisions accordingly. Link to post Share on other sites
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