StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Would anybody call her unreasonable for asking him not to visit prostitutes? oh c'mon tiger Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Stonecold's "I'm not happy being married anymore; here is how I'm going to get my wife divorce me" thread. huh? I have an opinion and I was asked for it. You are just pissy because my sentiments arent yours Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Sure there are plenty of manboys but there also plenty of woman girls as well. I have been to enough clubs and bars to have witnessed adult women getting so drunk I am surprised they didn't drop dead. I also see women in their 40s who still treat relationships as if they were in high school. This is not a one sided thing. You are correct, but one doesn't excuse the other. It doesn't make it ok for the OP's husband to disregard her feelings. I got curious reading this thread, and googled male revue. I've lost a bit of my innocence seeing how women sometimes act at those shows Ultimately, it isn't even about right and wrong. It is just not smart to disregard the feelings of the woman who actually has sex with you, so that you can go watch other women who just want your money. It just isn't "how to have a good relationship". I guess it comes down to what is more important to you---independence? Getting your own way? Strippers? Or a rewarding relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 (edited) I guess it comes down to what is more important to you---independence? Getting your own way? Strippers? Or a rewarding relationship? Now THIS is a sensible comment (pay attention sally4sara) in as much as xxoo and myself almost never agree and likely dont agree on this topic....I can agree that yes...it does ultimately boil down to whats important to you. Once you've figured out what that is...stay true to it. Edited April 8, 2011 by StoneCold Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Now THIS is a sensible comment (pay attention sally4sara) in as much as xxoo and myself almost never agree and likely dont agree on this topic....I can agree that yes...it does ultimately boil down to whats important to you. Once you've figured out what that is...stay true to it and dont falter regardless of what anybody says or tries to push upon you in the way of their own personal "morals" Which is virtually what every woman on this thread was trying to say. God not every woman is trying to keep your guy's penis in a jar underneath the sink! In general we just want some basic respect and are more then willing to return the favor. I don't freak out if my husband goes for lunch, I don't control his every move or demand everything from him while I go cheat or get drunk (or even drink for that matter). I don't expect him to make money for me to go piss away while I sit on the couch and watch Oprah (I don't even have cable). I just want SOME LEVEL OF MUTUAL RESPECT. Most of us do, and most women are willing and ready to provide it and even put in extra but the second we want something basic like that it usually gets thrown back at us like we are trying to make some super-political overarching grabs manipulation! So very very frustrating! Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 in as much as xxoo and myself almost never agree and likely dont agree on this topic....I can agree that yes...it does ultimately boil down to whats important to you. Once you've figured out what that is...stay true to it. It is always good to come to some mutual understanding And, yes, I do stay true to what is important to me Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Which is virtually what every woman on this thread was trying to say. God not every woman is trying to keep your guy's penis in a jar underneath the sink! In general we just want some basic respect and are more then willing to return the favor. I don't freak out if my husband goes for lunch, I don't control his every move or demand everything from him while I go cheat or get drunk (or even drink for that matter). I don't expect him to make money for me to go piss away while I sit on the couch and watch Oprah (I don't even have cable). I just want SOME LEVEL OF MUTUAL RESPECT. Most of us do, and most women are willing and ready to provide it and even put in extra but the second we want something basic like that it usually gets thrown back at us like we are trying to make some super-political overarching grabs manipulation! So very very frustrating! Well dreaming we could go back and forth for ever... but this all boils down to a matter of opinion....and opinions vary. To the OP... you have your opinions....you H has his own...However it turns out I hope it yields the most level of satisfaction in all areas for both of you. Link to post Share on other sites
Canuck1979 Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Which is virtually what every woman on this thread was trying to say. God not every woman is trying to keep your guy's penis in a jar underneath the sink! In general we just want some basic respect and are more then willing to return the favor. I don't freak out if my husband goes for lunch, I don't control his every move or demand everything from him while I go cheat or get drunk (or even drink for that matter). I don't expect him to make money for me to go piss away while I sit on the couch and watch Oprah (I don't even have cable). I just want SOME LEVEL OF MUTUAL RESPECT. Most of us do, and most women are willing and ready to provide it and even put in extra but the second we want something basic like that it usually gets thrown back at us like we are trying to make some super-political overarching grabs manipulation! So very very frustrating! StoneCold's wife is probably a strong woman. He equates that to women trying to control men. He's probably sitting at home waiting for momy-wifey to come home from work so that she can spank him because he was a bad boy. Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 StoneCold's wife is probably a strong woman. He equates that to women trying to control men. He's probably sitting at home waiting for momy-wifey to come home from work so that she can spank him because he was a bad boy. The errors of assumption Actually my wife and I have serious problems but none of them go back to that. If anything I can give her credit for NOT being like that AT ALL. But I've seen many others I care about endure that..friends, family and I see the errors and feel for them. Nice try though Link to post Share on other sites
Canuck1979 Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 The errors of assumption Actually my wife and I have serious problems but none of them go back to that. If anything I can give her credit for NOT being like that AT ALL. But I've seen many others I care about endure that..friends, family and I see the errors and feel for them. Nice try though Spankings are OK. They add spice to a stale love life. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Marriage is currently a female biased institution that is almost always sold as something else....again.. the divorce stats dont lie. Recent research still shows that marriage is good for men. Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Spankings are OK. They add spice to a stale love life. Nah... I have a smoking fetish Link to post Share on other sites
Canuck1979 Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Nah... I have a smoking fetish Smoking is gross. Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Recent research still shows that marriage is good for men. Its funny how sex and finances are on the list when they are the 2 leading causes of the rash of divorces as of late. hmm Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Smoking is gross. ...and spanking is demented....you have your thing I have mine Link to post Share on other sites
Canuck1979 Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 ...and spanking is demented....you have your thing I have mine Who said I was into spanking? Smoking causes cancer, pollutes...etc. Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Smoking causes cancer, pollutes...etc. Apparently so does everything else these days....what are you running from?...we all gotta die sometime Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Its funny how sex and finances are on the list when they are the 2 leading causes of the rash of divorces as of late. hmm Yes, it is eye-opening. The grass seems greener, but the research shows that married men fare better than single. Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 (edited) Yes, it is eye-opening. The grass seems greener, but the research shows that married men fare better than single. I guess if your one of those that can stay happily married and dont have to endure a divorce at some point. I personally dont like the risk/return but thats just me....the odds of a favourable outcome is terrible ultimately I guess just gotta know yourself and know what works best for you Edited April 8, 2011 by StoneCold Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 huh? I have an opinion and I was asked for it. You are just pissy because my sentiments arent yours Oh yes, because I began in this thread quoting you and calling you names like arrogant and insane. Oh wait, no, that was YOU. You didn't like my sentiments and those of others and decided to pick the fight with internet strangers that you're too chicken shyte to have with your wife. Grow up. You are the one who came out of the gate attacking opinions. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 God, I think we all just need to gave a beer and forgive each other, and I'm Mormon for Chrissakes. OP lay it out nice for your h and call it a night:) Link to post Share on other sites
StoneCold Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 (edited) Oh yes, because I began in this thread quoting you and calling you names like arrogant and insane. Oh wait, no, that was YOU. You didn't like my sentiments and those of others and decided to pick the fight with internet strangers that you're too chicken shyte to have with your wife. Grow up. You are the one who came out of the gate attacking opinions. grow up... thats ironic. FTR... I stopped taking it to my wife (god you people her sure as hell assume a lot)because I realized it was as pointless is getting to it with you. I'm not playing these games anymore with you sally. Drop your hard on for me because I'm not partaking. anyways....back to the original discussion at hand Edited April 8, 2011 by StoneCold Link to post Share on other sites
TattooMommy Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Why should he stop going just because you are bothered. You choose to be bothered and you can chose not to be. He isnt cheating on you, he is going to relax wind down, hang out with his friends and look at some tit and ass. He is being entertained. Women always think that just because we are bothered by somethng, that means he has to change. What about his feelings and what he wants. Maybe he is bothered by you being bothered by him doing something he enjoys and not even all the time. And he isnt hurting you or anyone else Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 And he isnt hurting you or anyone else He is hurting her - that's the whole point of the thread! Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 He is hurting her - that's the whole point of the thread! No, no, no....the whole point of the thread is that if women have any feelings whatsoever aside from adoration of their men that we are controlling, manipulative and oppressive, try to keep up! Seriously just kidding guys. Link to post Share on other sites
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