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If you don't shut up, I really am going to take a picture of my license and put something over the address.

 

I'm not suggesting you post pictures.

You did a few weeks ago.

It's not a safe practice and you're entitled to anonymity here.

 

My point is two-part.

One, if posters are frustrated with immaturity, there's a reason for that and two, advice would be more effective for you if geared to your true age bracket.

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I'm not suggesting you post pictures.

You did a few weeks ago.

It's not a safe practice and you're entitled to anonymity here.

 

My point is two-part.

One, if posters are frustrated with immaturity, there's a reason for that and two, advice would be more effective for you if geared to your true age bracket.

 

My true age bracket is 26, like it or not.

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Very true DA. But, it was her hairstyle, clothing, and room decoration (in the background) that gave it all away.

 

Justin Bieber poster gave it away:cool:

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Justin Bieber poster gave it away:cool:

 

Justin Beiber sucks...

 

something I'm not going to say here.

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Ross MwcFan
don't confuse what I look like with my actual age. I am 26 and I look like I'm 16.

 

It's not just the way you look.

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Sure, there's no shame in being young. If I was. I'm 26. I like really young looking things. I'm 26, taking 1 guitar class in community college. I would think my mature attitude would be a dead give away. I LOOK young. I don't act it.

 

The fact is though, you do act it.

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I was shocked to find out you were 26, but your picture does confirm it for me.

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I was shocked to find out you were 26, but your picture does confirm it for me.

 

Shocked why? I don't act younger, I act older. :confused:

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Methinks that's a great pic.

You do look attractive, as I imagined.

Why that other guy doesn't recognize this is beyond me...

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Methinks that's a great pic.

You do look attractive, as I imagined.

Why that other guy doesn't recognize this is beyond me...

 

Eveyone has different tastes.

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Originally Posted by Floridaman

Methinks that's a great pic.

You do look attractive, as I imagined.

Why that other guy doesn't recognize this is beyond me...

 

Eveyone has different tastes.

Of course.

Just chiming-in with a guy's perspective to tell he she has nothing to worry about in the looks dept.

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Shocked why? I don't act younger, I act older. :confused:

 

What is your criteria for this?

In what ways do you act or present as 'older?'

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I am a guy and I'd rather go out with cerridwen's avatar even though it creeps me out, but I'm getting use to it.

BTW Florida I'm pretty sure Dreamer is a she.

 

We could rub our beards together DA. If only to keep us warm on cold winter nights.

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Of course.

Just chiming-in with a guy's perspective to tell he she has nothing to worry about in the looks dept.

It takes more than looks to get a decent guy for more than sex.

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Originally Posted by Floridaman

Of course.

Just chiming-in with a guy's perspective to tell he she has nothing to worry about in the looks dept.

BTW Florida I'm pretty sure Dreamer is a she.

Why would I think otherwise?

She's posted as a woman all this time. What's this all about?

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What is your criteria for this?

In what ways do you act or present as 'older?'

 

In what ways do I not? :confused:

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Originally Posted by Floridaman

Of course.

Just chiming-in with a guy's perspective to tell he her she has nothing to worry about in the looks dept.

Originally Posted by Devil's Advocate BTW Florida I'm pretty sure Dreamer is a she

 

Why would I think otherwise?

She's posted as a woman all this time. What's this all about?

I see. TYPO time. Of course, I meant "tell her...."

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Shocked why? I don't act younger, I act older. :confused:

 

You might be older, but you function like a 16 year old girl. Your thought process, your erratic posting, your need to garnish muliple threads at once in order to get attention. It all screams insecure, immature, and extremely narcissistic.

 

You have zero insight into how your behaviour affects the people around you. You just want what you want and you want it now.

 

That's the normal existence of a teenager that hasn't grown into their ego yet.

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You might be older, but you function like a 16 year old girl. Your thought process, your erratic posting, your need to garnish muliple threads at once in order to get attention. It all screams insecure, immature, and extremely narcissistic.

 

You have zero insight into how your behaviour affects the people around you. You just want what you want and you want it now.

 

That's the normal existence of a teenager that hasn't grown into their ego yet.

This is the stone cold truth being broken down in absolute conciseness.

 

I've seen the multiple DG threads and can't wrap my mind around the constant seeking of attention. Fortunately, people can change under their own jurisdiction.:)

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Okay, so I like to post a lot. This means what in regards to my maturity level? It's a freakin' message board on a freakin' website. It's meant for posting.

 

I find the majority of you really weird.

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Actually, in all honesty, I like to talk. A lot. I get on here when I am not talking to one of my 2 best friends and/or my best guy friend, because the majority of the time I am online I am talking to them.

 

So, when they're not on and I wanna blab my mouth off, I get on here and make random posts about whatever the hell I want to.

 

Doesn't seem to me like that speaks of anything regarding my age or my maturity level.

 

I think you're all jealous, in all honesty.

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You might be older, but you function like a 16 year old girl. Your thought process, your erratic posting, your need to garnish muliple threads at once in order to get attention. It all screams insecure, immature, and extremely narcissistic.

 

You have zero insight into how your behaviour affects the people around you. You just want what you want and you want it now.

 

That's the normal existence of a teenager that hasn't grown into their ego yet.

 

This^^^^ but I would have been nicer about it. And maybe not so cut and dry.:laugh:

 

Okay, so I like to post a lot. This means what in regards to my maturity level? It's a freakin' message board on a freakin' website. It's meant for posting.

 

I find the majority of you really weird.

 

This ^^^^ and the response to Kelemort's well thought out post in the other thread.

 

Actually, in all honesty, I like to talk. A lot. I get on here when I am not talking to one of my 2 best friends and/or my best guy friend, because the majority of the time I am online I am talking to them.

 

So, when they're not on and I wanna blab my mouth off, I get on here and make random posts about whatever the hell I want to.

 

Doesn't seem to me like that speaks of anything regarding my age or my maturity level.

 

I think you're all jealous, in all honesty.

 

Classic NPD lines:

 

you are all just obsessed with me

you are just jealous

you are so wrong

you don't know what you are talking about

I am way more (x,y,z) then you

I only treat people X way because they Y. (justification)

 

Not saying that you are, but there is something very all over the place.

 

And you cut people down a lot.

 

Folks that do that tend to come from pretty rigid backgrounds. It seems like to them people either make the cut or don't, not much middle ground. Either you are the perfect friend or you aren't.

 

The problem comes as well when you turn that inwards, you view yourself as either passing or failing, instead of struggling towards success.

 

I, as someone who expresses some narcissistic tendencies herself (I often reference myself in threads that have nothing to do with me, working on it) can see a bit of my own history and how you might be setting yourself up for some huge hurt. Especially from a guy.

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Actually, in all honesty, I like to talk. A lot. I get on here when I am not talking to one of my 2 best friends and/or my best guy friend, because the majority of the time I am online I am talking to them.

 

So, when they're not on and I wanna blab my mouth off, I get on here and make random posts about whatever the hell I want to.

 

Doesn't seem to me like that speaks of anything regarding my age or my maturity level.

 

I think you're all jealous, in all honesty.

 

It's the way you go about it DG. It's the content of your posts.

 

Seriously, no offense, but there is absolutley nothing for any of us to be jealous of.

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This^^^^ but I would have been nicer about it. And maybe not so cut and dry.:laugh:

 

 

 

This ^^^^ and the response to Kelemort's well thought out post in the other thread.

 

 

 

Classic NPD lines:

 

you are all just obsessed with me

you are just jealous

you are so wrong

you don't know what you are talking about

I am way more (x,y,z) then you

I only treat people X way because they Y. (justification)

 

Not saying that you are, but there is something very all over the place.

 

And you cut people down a lot.

 

Folks that do that tend to come from pretty rigid backgrounds. It seems like to them people either make the cut or don't, not much middle ground. Either you are the perfect friend or you aren't.

 

The problem comes as well when you turn that inwards, you view yourself as either passing or failing, instead of struggling towards success.

 

I, as someone who expresses some narcissistic tendencies herself (I often reference myself in threads that have nothing to do with me, working on it) can see a bit of my own history and how you might be setting yourself up for some huge hurt. Especially from a guy.

 

 

Once again, in what ways do I act younger? Because nothing you said holds any validity. So, I think highly of myself. Better than having low self esteem.

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P.S. One of you had a well thought out post on here? I didn't know any of your brain's functioned that well. :confused:

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