D-Lish Posted April 30, 2011 Share Posted April 30, 2011 Once again, in what ways do I act younger? Because nothing you said holds any validity. So, I think highly of myself. Better than having low self esteem. You really think highly of yourself? lol. No one with a healthy sense of self esteem would: 1) post pictures of herself on the internet and ask to be judged, 2) create multiple ridiculous threads seeking attention Do you not see that a healthy 26 year old woman just wouldn't function this way? If you truly had a healthy self image, you wouldn't even care that people think you act like a teenager, and you wouldn't be going out of your way to convince people otherwise. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted April 30, 2011 Share Posted April 30, 2011 But if any of us here were truly healthy we wouldn't be using the internet to fill holes in our lives. With how much facebook is used this state of affairs is either a pandemic or the norm and apart of human nature. So is therapy unhealthy too? Because in this day and age, with all the access we have to technology, the internet has become a tool for knowledge, answers, connections and even help. A forum like this is very therapeutic for some people- and obviously just an amusement for others. It's the nature and content of her posts that make people question her mental health. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 The reasons for utilizing the tool are what determine how healthy it is and not the tool itself. Which is exactly what I was saying. You were the one that said the tool (internet) is unhealthy, not me. Which so far plugs holes but doesn't provide real, sustainable patches for the cracks. That's how people either get hooked on therapy or the internet without solving anything, but still seek a fix to be their cure; or they eventually abandon it because they get fed up with being stuck and seeing no progress. Lots of people get better through therapy, especially those that can apply their self awareness. If you go to the coping forum, you will see people slowly come to terms with their break up, and eventually come through the other side- it happens often here on LS. You see people processing and getting better. And on a side note, you make your own progress, you don't wait to see it, you gotta make it happen for yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Noor Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 (edited) Good day everybody, I am new here, and my English is not good enough. Please forgive me. I read the Topic and most of the comments. A pity that our friend "DreamerGirl27" feel such awful feelings, which I already feel for myself. To feel that you cannot get what you want and need, because of your looking, face, shape, figure, style or age. Me too look younger. I am 30 and look like 20 ! that makes me feel sad some times, because i donot attract any pretty woman at all on the other hand I feel happy when I look into the mirror I am still young even I am 30 . No matter how do you act. it is all about the first impression. when some one ( a handsome man or a pretty woman in my case ) looks at you, he or she feel nothing as you do not exists at all ! You may say that person cannot see you, because you are out of his Focus. I just want to say that : Be more Modest, humble, sober and patient. Never lose hope. God welling, you will find the Ideal Man of your dream. You do not know your destiny, maybe it is best for you that your handsome friend did not attract to you, who knows ! but please do not every sleep with a man you do not like him. just be patient and you will find the man of your dreams. Thank you and forgive me Edited May 1, 2011 by Noor Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted May 1, 2011 Author Share Posted May 1, 2011 The reasons for utilizing the tool are what determine how healthy it is and not the tool itself. Which so far plugs holes but doesn't provide real, sustainable patches for the cracks. That's how people either get hooked on therapy or the internet without solving anything, but still seek a fix to be their cure; or they eventually abandon it because they get fed up with being stuck and seeing no progress. Which is subjective. I on the other hand don't see a problem at all. in b4 more flaming now directed at me by ross, cerridwen, and friends. yes, as you said, there is no problem with me, I am aware that ross, cerridwen and friends are flaming and treating me in particular with a lot of disrespect. If I really cared, I wouldn't entertain them with responding. I post on these boards out of pure boredom. I just wanted to see if people would actually be honest on these boards, or if they would come up with a lot of bull/garbage/nonsense. I'm testing out these boards, to see if they have decent people on them. There are boards I am aware of that do. These, however, are not. I am fairly certain Ross, Cerridwen, and friends are psycho murderer serial killers or other people with serious mental illnesses from the amount of flaming and ganging up on me they have done. I just happen to post a lot, so maybe that is why they are attacking me and I guess I might come across as "vulnerable" or an "easy target". That is no excuse to continue to flame and provoke me, though. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted May 1, 2011 Author Share Posted May 1, 2011 Good day everybody, I am new here, and my English is not good enough. Please forgive me. I read the Topic and most of the comments. A pity that our friend "DreamerGirl27" feel such awful feelings, which I already feel for myself. To feel that you cannot get what you want and need, because of your looking, face, shape, figure, style or age. Me too look younger. I am 30 and look like 20 ! that makes me feel sad some times, because i donot attract any pretty woman at all on the other hand I feel happy when I look into the mirror I am still young even I am 30 . No matter how do you act. it is all about the first impression. when some one ( a handsome man or a pretty woman in my case ) looks at you, he or she feel nothing as you do not exists at all ! You may say that person cannot see you, because you are out of his Focus. I just want to say that : Be more Modest, humble, sober and patient. Never lose hope. God welling, you will find the Ideal Man of your dream. You do not know your destiny, maybe it is best for you that your handsome friend did not attract to you, who knows ! but please do not every sleep with a man you do not like him. just be patient and you will find the man of your dreams. Thank you and forgive me Aww. Thanks Noor. There is nothing to forgive! You were very sweet and nice. See. There are good people on the internet. They are just few and far between. Link to post Share on other sites
theseeker Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 (edited) It has nothing to do with looks, it has to do with selfworth. Guys don't want an easy fan girl, they want what they think they can't have. Make them jump through hoops to get any. I'm not saying to be mean, I'm saying to give them something they will want to chase, and for a long time. And stop having sex with guys you find unattractive. Whats wrong with you? Edited May 1, 2011 by theseeker Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted May 1, 2011 Author Share Posted May 1, 2011 It has nothing to do with looks, it has to do with selfworth. Guys don't want an easy fan girl, they want what they think they can't have. Make them jump through hoops to get any. I'm not saying to be mean, I'm saying to give them something they will want to chase, and for a long time. And stop having sex with guys you find unattractive. Whats wrong with you? Ummm....I'm a virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
Floridaman Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 Originally Posted by theseeker It has nothing to do with looks, it has to do with selfworth. Guys don't want an easy fan girl, they want what they think they can't have. Make them jump through hoops to get any. I'm not saying to be mean, I'm saying to give them something they will want to chase, and for a long time. And stop having sex with guys you find unattractive. Whats wrong with you? Ummm....I'm a virgin. Made the same mistake myself. I had interacted with the OP in an earlier thread but hadn't kept up with her successive threads. The tenor and "all over the board" nature of her posts/ threads at first glance, such as the title of this thread, leads one to believe the OP was having sex... Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 But if any of us here were truly healthy we wouldn't be using the internet to fill holes in our lives. With how much facebook is used this state of affairs is either a pandemic or the norm and apart of human nature. Who says we're all using the Internet to fill holes in our lives? Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 (edited) yes, as you said, there is no problem with me, I am aware that ross, cerridwen and friends are flaming and treating me in particular with a lot of disrespect. If I really cared, I wouldn't entertain them with responding. I post on these boards out of pure boredom. I just wanted to see if people would actually be honest on these boards, or if they would come up with a lot of bull/garbage/nonsense. I'm testing out these boards, to see if they have decent people on them. There are boards I am aware of that do. These, however, are not. I am fairly certain Ross, Cerridwen, and friends are psycho murderer serial killers or other people with serious mental illnesses from the amount of flaming and ganging up on me they have done. I just happen to post a lot, so maybe that is why they are attacking me and I guess I might come across as "vulnerable" or an "easy target". That is no excuse to continue to flame and provoke me, though. I've never flamed you. You were the one who flamed me in the first place for no reason, remember? You also talk about ugly guys as though they're underneath you, and you also spoke about pretending to be friends with a guy who you didn't like, just to make another guy jealous. 'If' anyone has been harsh towards you, it's because you deserve it. Edited May 1, 2011 by Ross MwcFan Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 Your presence here does. If you were fulfilled irl then you wouldn't be living on the internet. Sure, I use the Internet to fill holes in my life. But if I didn't need to fill any holes I'd still go on the Internet, just not as much. What you seemed to be implying though, is that everyone here must have holes in their life that they need to fill, just because they're on the Internet. Which simply isn't true at all. Link to post Share on other sites
orangelady Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 Your presence here does. If you were fulfilled irl then you wouldn't be living on the internet. Then why are you on the Internet now? Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 If one's life was full and flourishing then the internet, television, music, video games, novels, plays, drugs, religion, sport spectating, collecting, and a variety of other distractions would not have the alluring glimmer of the bug zapper beguiling hapless gnats to come hither to its fluorescent glow and their ultimate doom. You assume I think I am immune because I came to this philosophy, but if anyone could ever be wise then they would know they're the king of fools. The majority of people with fulfilling lives watch TV and go on the Internet, etc. Doing the things you enjoy is part of having a fulfilling life. Link to post Share on other sites
orangelady Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 If one's life was full and flourishing then the internet, television, music, video games, novels, plays, drugs, religion, sport spectating, collecting, and a variety of other distractions would not have the alluring glimmer of the bug zapper beguiling hapless gnats to come hither to its fluorescent glow and their ultimate doom. You assume I think I am immune because I came to this philosophy, but if anyone could ever be wise then they would know they're the king of fools. I do feel though, that if there wasn't the Internet, people would have much more 'life'. Because of the Internet, a lot of loners congregate on here and it does nothing for them. A lot of people on the Internet also have a lack on finances and don't feel the need to do something about it because entertainment is available cheaply online. For example, if you propose them to do something, the answer would be : "I'm broke." I even spoke to one guy and I asked him what does he do for fun and he said "Playing video games, because it's inexpensive." It really does make one a lot lonelier. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 Your presence here does. If you were fulfilled irl then you wouldn't be living on the internet. That isn't necessarily true and how can you state that since you have no idea who we really are ? I live a very fulling life and love my life.. I co-run and co-own a business that keeps me busy and have a wonderful family life and wife and a wonderful little boy. Right now as I am writing this my son is sitting on my lap talking to me while he watches TV..he is also pointing at the emoticons My wife is doing her laundry and keeps popping in here asking me questions about my trip to Texas this last week.. and I'm getting ready to go cut the lawn. We spend many weekends at a cabin in the mountains doing the family thing. Maybe you could explain to me what I'm missing and how my life is void of living because I post on LS ? I can honestly say that if my life was any more fulfilled that I wouldn't have any alone time.. which I occasionally need. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 You are a very judgmental and possibly ignorant person and obviously not very fulfilled as far as the rest of your post... Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 You are a very judgmental and possibly ignorant person and obviously not very fulfilled as far as the rest of your post... LA is rife with ironic posts. I always get a chuckle when a person WHO POSTS ON LS claims that someone else has no life because they post on LS. Link to post Share on other sites
thebody Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 There's a lot of psychologists on this message board. whew... I have a horrible self esteem myself, and I'd hate to have it scrutinized by the entirety of the internet. I think we all have a bit of literary freedom on the internet and we tend to just shoot off whatever is on our mind irregardless of how it may effect another's feelings or delicate psyche. Maybe yes she does have a bad self esteem, and looks for some sort of affirmation through the internet... Is this really something deserving of a verbal lashing? Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 LA is rife with ironic posts. I always get a chuckle when a person WHO POSTS ON LS claims that someone else has no life because they post on LS. Grass is cut.. In their short time here.. 53 posts they have isolated themselves and insulted many of the people that they were looking for fulfillment from They say that a need for alone time means a life is unfulfilled is a pile of shiot.. IMO they aren't a very good psychologist. The would mean if a person reads a book.. that they are not living a fulfilled life. I think that poster doesn't know what the heck they are talking about IMO and really should go get a life themselves... Link to post Share on other sites
thehead Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 There's a lot of psychologists on this message board. whew... I have a horrible self esteem myself, and I'd hate to have it scrutinized by the entirety of the internet. I think we all have a bit of literary freedom on the internet and we tend to just shoot off whatever is on our mind irregardless of how it may effect another's feelings or delicate psyche. Maybe yes she does have a bad self esteem, and looks for some sort of affirmation through the internet... Is this really something deserving of a verbal lashing? There you are thebody/Always Looking Back/devils advocate/kuddlemonkey/begin again. whats happening here? sock puppeting! this is why you removed me outside pensacola? so youre free to exercise such base practices without the burden of my conscience? well jokes on you. greyhound has buses running at all hours. im nearing philly. just stopped at an internet cafe along the way. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 I'm not thebody, but I was the other accounts and of course am Always Looking Back. Besides I would never go to Pensacola. It has no theme parks which is all Florida is good for. So you have had 4 other id's on LS and use them to sock puppet ? Great.. I guess I fell for your game then... Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 My three previous accounts were banned. There is no game unless you consider that the game. Well.. expect to get banned again then unless you change the way you interact with people here.. Link to post Share on other sites
thehead Posted May 1, 2011 Share Posted May 1, 2011 There's a lot of psychologists on this message board. whew... I have a horrible self esteem myself, and I'd hate to have it scrutinized by the entirety of the internet. I think we all have a bit of literary freedom on the internet and we tend to just shoot off whatever is on our mind irregardless of how it may effect another's feelings or delicate psyche. Maybe yes she does have a bad self esteem, and looks for some sort of affirmation through the internet... Is this really something deserving of a verbal lashing? if you had a head id haul you out by your tiny puppet ear. Your inability to lapse into the dramatic ("verbal lashing" ?!?!) and formalized speech gave it away. points given for attempts at adopting Bro-ski speech ("yay bro...duuuuuuude!") Points deducted for lasting less than a dozen posts undetected. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted May 1, 2011 Author Share Posted May 1, 2011 and now we have started flaming Ross. Why must you people on the internet put your ugly, filthy, disgusting opinions of someone's else's life on a message board? Link to post Share on other sites
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