BellaDonna20111 Posted April 6, 2011 Share Posted April 6, 2011 I met Danny on a dating site, and we got on very well, he called me daily, but we couldn't meet up because I was ill. he arranged a doctor for me, paid for my care, and took me to his house for a meal; then kept in touch with me for the next month while I recovered. The day we were supposed to get together (he was going to pick me up and take me to his house) he said he cvould pick me up "after a match" he was watching with his friend. Well, i waited but no Danny - the next day I found an email from him saying he had lost my phone number! next thing was, his internet was off - odd, as he runs his own business. And during the week I saw him log on. On the sunday we got together and all was lovely - and he is generous and charming and all over me like a rash. Although he did tell me the internet was still off. We made love and spent the afternoon gazing into each others eyes and i felt like a kid before xmas (and he said he did too.) He was sad going home because he said he would miss me; he only lives half an hour drive from me, but apparently this is impossible because of work the first part of the week, and he was "going to dinner with his friend" on thursday and going away for the weekend, but we would meet up on Sunday. I told him, I don't like being the one to call in case it is a nuisance, but he insisted it would be wonderful to hear from me. so I did - and since we parted, he has only answered one call from me, (I have called him 4 times) never replied to a text (i have sent 4) I have sent him 2 emails - no reply - and when i spoke to him online tonight, got "talk to you later, have to go." But - the thing is, having been cheated on before, I had set up a fake profile this morning which set him as a "favorite". The man who had no time to speak to me day or night for three days after acting as if he was besotted, was, at 4.30 this afternoon, welcoming the strange woman. "she" gave him her email address but so far he has not replied, or sent "her" his photo as she asked. I am just so sad, because I can't describe, "we" felt so right together - always do. But there is so little contact when we are apart. And I had come off that website - he is obviously still going on there. And if he responds to just being "checked", then how can I believe he is not spending his evenings with other women from there? Link to post Share on other sites
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