AmandaA Posted April 6, 2011 Share Posted April 6, 2011 Its complicated to explain but I have been with my boyfriend going on 2 years and I love him alot and he's been in my daughters life from 6 months old and she adores him. We have broken up a couple times and seem to find ourselves back together again. The last time was the worst yet...he decided to move out after spending the rent money on a car. I was a month pregnant and he did not know at the time because I didn't want him to stay just because of that, he decided to befriend his ex again who is crazy , she use to sit outside our house and watch every move we made, I befriended her at one point until I found out it was her way of trying to get him back, I forgave her for everything but this time was different, I had caught him a couple times talking to her but it was just him trying to be nice bc she has cancer, she is 15 years older then him and 20 years older then me but she acts like a child. She knew I was pregnant and decided to call the cops on me for flatten her tires which she found out was her running over bolts and I was on bed rest and the stress from this caused my miscarriage. This is all around Christmas, he says he'll be there for me through it all for support but instead he rode with her and spent Christmas with her and his family,he ignored all my calls and text, I love him so aside from his faults and mistakes we were not together so I cannot be mad at him for being with her. I later got calls from her rubbing it in my face and saying shes happy I miscarried the baby and all kinds of nasty stuff. I blocked her number from both our phones bc she was doing the same to him. She started calling from someone elses phone and blocks her number and still calls to start stuff...She said they were messing around the whole time and he says they weren't, he said she just gave him a ride to his families house,she says they were a couple. When we got back together he wanted to prove she was lying so he called her and put her on speaker phone,she sounded like a whole another person when she talks to him... he says "why did you tell her we were together as a couple,having sex the whole time and that you spent Christmas with me?" she says " I didn't tell her that,she's lying"...this proved to me that she wasn't truthful like I thought and that he wasn't lying. I love him so much but I sick of moving bc she keeps following me to my home and I sick of changing our numbers...I need help How can I make her stop! Lets not forget the facebook messages and sending messages through our friends... Link to post Share on other sites
Kelemort Posted April 7, 2011 Share Posted April 7, 2011 It mostly goes without saying, but I'll say it anyway: she is insane. If he knows she's doing all of this, what on Earth is he doing still communicating with her or accepting rides from her? He either loves the drama or he's cheating on you with her. Those are really the only viable explanations I can see for this kind of behavior. Lay down the ground rules: from here out, she's cut out of your lives or you're cutting yourself out of his. File a restraining order against her if she's following you around like that. Link to post Share on other sites
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