Fufu Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 Don't over think too much about what she's feeling and thinking because if she does care about you, she will initiate the contact. However if you want to break NC and take the risk, it's your decision. You can try texting her you miss her and see if she replies or not. If she doesn't reply you, will you feel hurt all over again? If she says thanks but we are truly over, will you feel all rejected again? If you can stand all these negative replies from her, then it's up to you. And if you want to meet her, are you ready to get negative replies from her? 10 days in NC is doing very well. I just want to say if you want to text her and/or meet her, always be mentally prepared you will not be hearing and getting what you want and wish for. Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlixer Posted April 15, 2011 Author Share Posted April 15, 2011 I sent her: "I miss you!" She replayed: "I don't know what to say.. strange feeling.. I don't know what to say.." I sent: "Maybe you want to met? I will not bite :)" She replayed: "I can't today.. maybe tomorrow :)" I sent: "Ok" What do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
Fufu Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 She's not being affirmed in meeting you, because she says MAYBE not yes tomorrow. Don't initiate any texts to her anymore, if she really wants to meet you tomorrow, she will send you a text that she wants to meet you or anything about what time is the meeting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlixer Posted April 15, 2011 Author Share Posted April 15, 2011 (edited) But I want to meet her.. I want to know how she is.. I know that she wants to meet me.. if she wouldn't want to meet me then she would replay that she don't want to meet.. I actually don't feel very bad, of course I also don't feel very good, I know that she is probably spending time with that new guy, but that don't hurt me. I know that she isn't loving me anymore.. if she would still love me or miss me then she would replay: "I miss you too!" instead of saying "i feel strange when you say that", but she didn't and I accept that. Also now when I know that she really will not come back I can meet new girls.. Edited April 15, 2011 by zlixer Link to post Share on other sites
Fufu Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 if she wants to be with you she will want to be with you. Anyway, it's your decision Link to post Share on other sites
Author zlixer Posted April 17, 2011 Author Share Posted April 17, 2011 Ok yesterday we met each other and talked for about 5h... She said that she is with someone else and already had sex with that guy... but she can't forget me and is thinking about me all the time. She also said that sex with him wasn't like it was with me, because she don't love that guy.. She also is comparing me with that guy all the time and said that he is total opposite to me. She said that she still has feelings to me and don't love new guy but has some sympathy. I begged her and asked to come back.. She couldn't say Yes, but she said that will think about that. She also did cry and said that she is very sorry that she has caused all these negative feeling to me. So I think that I have small chance but at least there is a chance.. Link to post Share on other sites
Fufu Posted April 17, 2011 Share Posted April 17, 2011 Wait a minute, she broke up with you, got a new bf and had sex with him. Personally, I think it is comparing who gives her better sex. Anyway, if you guys do get back together, I hope you guys work things out properly and if you feel that she will not do this kind of thing to you, broke up with you, got into a new relationship and stuffs, then it's fine I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
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