He's with somebody three days after break-up, I still love him and want him back

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What do I do Now!!!!

 

Me and the ex were together for 2 years been broken up for 2 months. We both had been arguing a lot and just couldn't take it any more. I did the begging, pleading and then couldn't stand it anymore. 3 days after we broke up he was dating another woman who is just in the beginng stages of a serperation and has a 3 year old son. Me and my ex are both 26. The new woman is 32. The ex and I always talked about getting married and having children becasue we were at that stage of settling down and i knew that i wanted it to be with him and vice versa. We have been in contact and a week ago he comes over saying the new woamn is getting on his nerves and he dosen't know if he can deal with her already having a child. He says that she dosen't satisfy him sexually and that everyone tells him that he should be with me. He breaks up with her and stays with me for 4 days and then sees her at work calls me up and says that he still has feelings for her and me also that he needs to take some time to figure things out. I find out that he is back talking th her. It blows my mind that you can just throw 2 years down the drain and be with somebody else 3 days after we broke up. I know that he still has feelings for and loves me. He says i love you but not in love with you...i don't believe this from his actions. What do I do. I desperatley want him back

[Papillon]

Oh wow.....

 

I let them out one by one.

 

1) He does not respect you.

1) If he did, he would not go sowing his wild oats when it's obviously a time of hurt for you.

1) Then he has the AUDACITY to come moaning to you how the new relationship aint working for him?!?!?

1) Then he strings you along by staying with you for four days so he can mess you up some more.

1) He's on his own mission and is using you and this other woman.

1) If in doubt, see point number 1.

 

Yes, it is amazing how he can just throw away 2 years. See point 1.