what do i do

[tyler61]

ive been with the same girl for a few months now and ive asked her about her sex life and she told me then i went on her profile and read old messages and she left a guy out and i asked her about it and she sead they dident do anything then i read more and they proved that she did then she told me that they started but then she told him to stop and she sead she never talked to him any more then i read more messages about them trying to hook up agin to finish what they started but she keeps lieing and saying they never did that and the messages say they did what do i do she keeps lieing to me about her past relationships and its making me sad because i dont know what else she is leaving out it dosent work to ask because she gets mad and tells me the same thing what do i do plz help

[Linda9999]

You need to:

1) start using punctuation when you type

2) quit looking at her messages

3) dump her and find someone who isn't a liar

4) learn how to spell

not necessarily in that order

[zakfar]

First of all, I would like to ask, how old are you. Because the solution depends on that.

 

If you are 21 or younger, dump her, and find someone else.

 

If you are older (like 30+) then it's different. Then you need to communicate more with her.

 

One thing I want to tell here. Why are you being so much worried about her past? Past is past... it can't change. You never know why she is lying to you. The possible reasons can be:

 

. She is just playing with you.

. She loves you, and is afraid that you will leave her if you learned about her previous sexual relationships.

. She simply likes to lie. Whatever you ask him, she always lies.

. She loves you, and knows that you love her, and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings for her.

 

There can also be many other possible reasons. But these are enough for you to know.

 

I hope it helps.

 

Zakfar.

[ladydi721]

What Lina9999 said.......your post was frustating & hard to read without punctuation & correct spelling.