GJS Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 I have been with my fiance for a little over a year now, and am madly in love with her. I tell her I love Her at least 5 times a day and teel her how beatuiful she is. Is this to much? When I tell her I love her she will say the same to me but say it kind of weird. When I tell her how beautiful she is she just looks at me and rolls her eyes. I am the one always hugging and kissing and always hold her hand when we go out or drive in the car. If I don't make that effort she dosen't. Am I suffocating her, am I telling her to much, am I doing to much? Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 ask her. some women love it...some do not as much...as with men. tell her she doesn't have to respond, but you are just bubbling over with love for her and it spills out! Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 You're telling her so much that now the phrase is clearly being stripped of meaning. If she's rolling her eyes when you say things, do you really even have to ask if it's getting annoying? Link to post Share on other sites
miz_barby Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 Coming from a woman's point of view.....I feel that "some" women find it kind of "mushy" and lame for a man to always compliment them...it is good to tell her at least once or twice a day that you love her but sometimes being bombarded with compliments everyday can get old. Some girls enjoy the "mystery" of wondering what a guy is thinking or feeling....hearing it soooo much sometimes takes the warmth and the specialness out of it! I say back off a little (but don't get too cold) and see what happens...I think if she hears it less she will appreciate it more...or could it be that she is just an unaffectionate person? Was she always like this or has it recently changed? Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 The only one who can answer your questions is your fiance. It is up to her to decide how much affection she is comfortable with, or how frequently she finds it acceptable for you to tell her that you love her. I recommend talking to her about your concerns seriously. Hopefully she will be honest with her responses, and not try to spare you your feelings. If she feels the least bit suffocated, and does not let you know about it, there could be problems down the line. Let her know that you would very much appreciate her telling you when she feels a bit too crowded by you You say she is rolling her eyes at your compliments. This might be a sign that, to her, less is definitely more meaningful. Link to post Share on other sites
MarKus Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 going on by what you wrote, i think you might be sufforcating her a little bit, and mabye being a bit clingy, and she might not be comfortable with that But like the others said....talk to her about it Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted April 6, 2004 Share Posted April 6, 2004 Dude, I think you might be overdoing it, just a tad. Sometimes too many compliments, too much affection, and too many 'I love yous' can be annoying for some and can get old really quick. Back off a little bit and she'll definately notice. Sometimes less is more! ~V Link to post Share on other sites
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