GUEST Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 After being together for a pretty long time me and my ex broke it off! Now all i can think about is what is he doing?! 5 days after we broke up he was on those stupid Internet sights: ratemybody.com adultfriendfinder.com hotornot.com facethejury.com singles.com ect................ All these sights deal with meeting people that you want to hook up with, just to have sex or what not! I don't get it? In my honest opinion these people are sluty ( the girls) ! the guys are either hot or not but the girls ....YIKES! well not all! but you know! For me to get on these websites and look up my ex's profiles on these sights and seeing these girls he wants to hook up with, their comments, it just gets me very time!? .......... Not to sound conceded but i find myself a little be prettier than these girls but i still get jealous! i don't know? it makes me think that they're better than me, major jealously!? is this right? do those web sites really work for guys? Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 They work for anyone who chooses to use them. If not for sex....then for the fun and entertainment of it all. I can understand where you would feel jealousy since the break up is still new. However, how slutty the females may be on there....really isn't the issue. He's goofing around and broke up with you for the right to do so. Maybe you should post something sexy on one of those sights and see how HE feels.... Link to post Share on other sites
guest Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 I would but how would he find my post! I actually got a clue that he was and then looked for it? It just hurts me to think he's getting a lil. sluty piece of ass! I know i don't ever want to be with him again. it's just i want him to feel and say i miss you! i want him to feel like he has made a mistake! we had some really great times, just at the end it went all to hell! i don't want him to remember the bad times just the good like i am, even though it makes me miss him! i just want him to feel what i feel! *****does anyone else have anything to say about those web sites? Link to post Share on other sites
Girlie Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 I personally wouldn't want to use most of those websites, but if he does, that's really none of anyone elses business. And since many people do use them, I doubt very seriously that all he'll meet his skanky sluts. But if that's what he wants, so be it. You can't make it stop and you can't make him miss you. I really think your best bet is to stop looking at his profiles. You're only torturing yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 You want him to have the same feelings of hurt and regret that you have, but you can't make him feel that way. You're only causing yourself more pain by trying to keep track of his activities. The websites are silly, but you can see as much silliness and stupidity at a bar any weekend. It's his choice and his right. It's hard, but you need to let go. Let him make his decisions, good or foolish. Eventually, you will be indifferent to what he does or why. It's more important that you focus on your life and your decisions, and go out and meet a great guy who isn't slutty or skanky. Link to post Share on other sites
guest Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 well i hope i can get off this high horse and move on! i just come to the conclusion and ask myself at least twice a day... well what was wrong with me? but i guess i'll never know that! my friends and family tell me that i'm really pretty and that he'll miss me sooner or later cause i was there for him so much, but i miss him now and want to feel him by my side!..... but then again when i think of him wanting and doing these other sluty girls i don't want him anymore! wish me luck as i guess this is a turning point in my life!! thanks so much!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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