hcromwell Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Off to Retrouvaille this weekend. Was very anxious/excited but wife threw cold water on it yesterday when she came back with a printout of the weekend agenda...and had highlighted the line..."both couples need to be committed deeply to saving the marriage" She basically said she is not. Oy vey...this chick is so pissed at the world(ok me) right now. Thing is i don't see all the issues as dealbreakers...no cheating, no abuse, no drinking or drugs...just death by a thousand cuts kind of a thing...little disappointments that have now colored her whole world. I may be stupid but i think she still loves me but is disgusted by her life right now...we had major financial difficulties...somewhat behind us now... a friend saw us both last night and her comment was...my wife is not getting a divorce...she is just sooo angry ...and i have to let he be.. who knows...been going on 2 years...and getting worse...hope this weekend can clarify some things wish me luck Link to post Share on other sites
willowthewisp Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Your wife is the one who is complaining about you but doing nothing regarding seperation? Or do I have you confused? Well yeah sure, obviously the weekend involves committment, does she think marriages repair or even stay healthy by themselves? ALL relationships take work. Friends, family, ALL of them. Is she still going on the weekend? Maybe they can get it through to her? Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 What the hell is she so angry about? Link to post Share on other sites
Frank13 Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 She is just not that into you anymore so to her it isn't worth the work involved. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 Are we Mets fans known to be angry? I have a lot of gripes about the team ownership, management and the behavior of certain players. The only thing I'm really mad at is that the damn Phillies built a little league field and hired grown ups who can hit balls over the fence at every position. The freaking Phillies are poised to be the new Atlanta Braves and win the division every year for the next decade or so. That's cause for anger. Sorry, but the title was irresistible. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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