my perents are swingers

[hotchick28]

my dad and his GF Tina have been swingers for years, but i never knew untill recently. I foudn out when i foudn some dirty pics of them on the computer !!!! now they openly admit to it ! it is just a bit weird ! is this normal at all for anyone with family into that life style ? should i feel weird about it ?

[Tayla]

ahh yes, gotta love the new comers that post on a Friday night.....

[BeginAgain]

It hasn't been common since the 70's or the 80's afaik.

[purrrfect_woman]

hi i have just found out my mother is a swinger (and her husband) she felt forced to tell me as i was becoming friendly with people who are swingers and also and go to the same events as her, (what a small world) i am not a swinger, just to clarify. im not keen on the idea and cant understand why people do it but accept that that is what they like to do and i leave it there.... but finding out about my moher is a bit to close to home for my liking, when i confronted her about pictures i found when i was 15 she quickly dismissed it, and now i feel quite angry that she has opend a subject and quickly shut it when i have questions... it also raises questions about why her and my dad split he has no idea of her lifestyle and im not prepared to b the barer of bad news, i personally feel a little discusted, angry, confused, and i have lost respect for her as a person i dont know why but thats how i feel at the moment and i know it's ok for me to feel that way it's not wrong of me but if i was to hurl abuse or say nasty things to her it would be wrong in my oppinion, so feel what you need to feel i think its a natural process to feel "wierd" so dont worry. if there open about it, and will answer your questions then i think its all good x