DreamerGirl27 Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 I have never had a guy pay me attention for longer than 15 seconds. I have a crush on a guy who is genuinely my friend and stays in contact with me regularly. But he says we're just friends. Everyone's saying he's supposedly not interested, because apparently men friend zone women like women friend zone men, yet he's the only guy to stay in contact with me longer than 15 seconds. I've been doing everything everyone on here suggest, and trying to give other guys a chance. I texted a guy for 2 whole friggin' days and he stopped texting. Our conversations were boring. He didn't ask many questions. when I was getting to know the guy I actually liked, we texted for hours upon hours upon hours for days, nights, weeks on end. Long friggin' texts and now he continually messages me on facebook. If I don't log into facebook for a few weeks, he'll be texting me after a couple of weeks. He continually invites me places. He's continually in my life, yet every other douche bag that I try to let into it, disappears without any sign of warning or anything. So, what am I supposed to do? Cut contact with the one and only man that's ever decided to stay in contact with me and then literally talk to no guy? do I have a big fat sign on my forehead that says "ever man, stay away from me and don't talk to me" I can't get any other guy to talk...guys are not talkers, but I was talking to this old friend recently as well... All of his answers are very short and very vague. It's like pulling teeth to get him to open up. With the guy that I like...he opens up to me about all sorts of stuff. ALL the friggin' time. In fact, he talks so much that I can barely get a word in edge wise. Now, why oh why, would I ever think that maybe, just maybe he actually does like me. I dunno...seems like the signs are all there. So, why should I cut contact? So, I can go back to only talking to female friends. I'm either really attractive, like, so attractive, that NO guy will stay friends with me because they're blinded by my beauty and they wouldn't be able to stand it if I friend zoned them... ::sarcasm:: or, I'm so ridiculously ugly and unappealing, that no man wants to get near me and gets turned off after 2 seconds of talking to me ::also sarcasm:: I really don't know what the deal is, but it's pretty friggin' special when a guy sticks around and I am not going to take that for granted and cut him off. I just hope this turns into something, because he is the only male contact I have. Literally. I have ONE guy friend. The rest, ignore the living daylights outta me. Sure, they'll accept my friend request, but they refuse to speak. He's literally, all I got. Which is sad, because he just wants me as a friend. Am I that repulsive????????????????? Link to post Share on other sites
BeginAgain Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Post a pic of yourself and I'll give my honest opinion otherwise pipe down. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 9, 2011 Author Share Posted April 9, 2011 Already did (posted a pic of myself) and I don't have to pipe down today or any other day. It's a free internet. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Just use that one guy until you find someone better. Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 (edited) Get dressed up, go to a different town, go to a bar, put on an air of being the charming, receptive, friendly, sexual lady you are and get picked up and have lots of utterly meaningless and thoroughly enjoyable sex with someone whose name you don't know. If someone who you fancy using for sex tries to engage in small talk or chat ups, say "I'm looking for some meaningless sex. Are you interested?" That will sort the men from the boys. Edited April 9, 2011 by betterdeal Link to post Share on other sites
BeginAgain Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Already did (posted a pic of myself) and I don't have to pipe down today or any other day. It's a free internet. Where did you post it? Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Lol! I love some of the topics on Loveshack. Link to post Share on other sites
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 You've already mentioned that you have had men who have shown interest, yet you didn't find them attractive. And the only guy you find attractive, he doesn't find you attractive. Maybe it's a little too much whining, but you sound too self entitled. You're obviously attractive, if you can attract men that you aren't attracted to. Link to post Share on other sites
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Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 10, 2011 Author Share Posted April 10, 2011 Yeah, I can attract mountain trolls of men. Link to post Share on other sites
orangelady Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 Post a pic of yourself and I'll give my honest opinion otherwise pipe down. BA, can you chill............. Link to post Share on other sites
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 Yeah, I can attract mountain trolls of men. I just find it weird that you're complaining about not attracting anybody, when the men who want you, you don't want, and the man you want, doesn't want you. Obviously you're attractive to someone, if these men are attracted to you! Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 10, 2011 Author Share Posted April 10, 2011 I just find it weird that you're complaining about not attracting anybody, when the men who want you, you don't want, and the man you want, doesn't want you. Obviously you're attractive to someone, if these men are attracted to you! The man I'm attracted to is blind? Seriously, I've had other men ask me if he is gay or blind, because they'd take me in a heart beat and they've said they are jealous of him. Link to post Share on other sites
BeginAgain Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 BA, can you chill............. I am chill. I am the Victor Freeze of staying frosty. Though expect any time you girls fixate on your attractiveness I am always going to be the "Where's the beef?" lady of pics except with a penis. It comes down to put up or shut up in that you upload those pics or be shhhhhhh! Don't make me bring out my inner librarian. She so hates noisy children. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 I felt for you in reading your post. I'm not used to hearing a woman talk like that. It tugs at my heart strings. I hope you find someone soon. You seem like a nice package. Link to post Share on other sites
Goldenspoon Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 All these guys you're refering to, are they real life friends or online friends? Link to post Share on other sites
The Straightener Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Where is the pic that you have posted of yourself? Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 11, 2011 Author Share Posted April 11, 2011 I felt for you in reading your post. I'm not used to hearing a woman talk like that. It tugs at my heart strings. I hope you find someone soon. You seem like a nice package. Thank feelin frisky!!! You made my day!! Link to post Share on other sites
highviolet Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 All these guys you're refering to, are they real life friends or online friends? I was wondering this too... Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 Thank feelin frisky!!! You made my day!! Ha, and you made mine by saying so. Link to post Share on other sites
Scottdmw Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 Dating can be hard for some people, especially people who are picky. I should know, I'm still single myself, and there is a large element of pickyness there because there are women who would like to be with me that I turn down. I would just say that if I had it to do over again I would've tried to be less picky along the way and made the decision to be with some of the women that I rejected for various reasons. What ends up happening is you suffer years of loneliness until the pain of being alone finally outweighs the pain of compromising some of your standards. I hate to put it so bluntly, but it's pretty much the truth. Right now my list of requirements has shrunk significantly over what it used to be. I guess it's going to keep shrinking until I actually decide to be with someone who wants to be with me. BTW, I love your phrase "mountain troll"! Link to post Share on other sites
BeginAgain Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 Mountain trolls need loving too but they have to pay. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted April 13, 2011 Author Share Posted April 13, 2011 Mountain trolls need loving too but they have to pay. BeginAgain, is there something wrong with you? That's a serious question. Link to post Share on other sites
BeginAgain Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 BeginAgain, is there something wrong with you? That's a serious question. Nothing is serious about you or your situation. You have created a system of contradictions so you can pretend you are trapped and then don't have to bother moving. Some people on here have real problems to overcome like social anxiety. You on the other hand have pretend problems and need to get over yourself. You are probably not nearly as bad as you make yourself out to be, but until I can see at least a video of you vlogging or out with friends in your natural environment I can't tell what you are really like. Without that I can't diagnose the issue. Most of your posts read like teenaged prattle and "Dear Diary" nonsense thus you get the responses you get. Link to post Share on other sites
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