Hopeless Girl Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 My confused now exboyfriend made a dare with me to not speak to each other in 3 months while he goes to therapy. Should I extend it to 6 months? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hopeless Girl Posted April 9, 2011 Author Share Posted April 9, 2011 somebody??????????????????????????// Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 I need more information on this tbh. Why is he in therapy? I don't get it? Link to post Share on other sites
WTRanger Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Play mind games, that's always a healthy way to cope. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hopeless Girl Posted April 9, 2011 Author Share Posted April 9, 2011 Dumped me once.. he thought i didnt love him like he did ...got back after 2 weeks. then one week later he asks for a break.. thing is i confessed that I texted my ex so we could end things right (me and my other ex ended things horribly and hes like part of my friends life i dont care at all for him) .... i know maybe i shouldve have not called him but thats not the point. The point is he was like "finish up school and ill be doing my therapy and lets not speak for 3 months". and i was like ok whatever. havent spoken to him since. HES SO CONFUSED or is he ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hopeless Girl Posted April 9, 2011 Author Share Posted April 9, 2011 Play mind games, that's always a healthy way to cope. huh? r u being sarcastic? Link to post Share on other sites
zakfar Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 Depends how serious you are for him. If you want him back, and don't want to take the risk, then wait for 3 months as he said. He might be already facing some kind of psychological problem, and your company can be a good help for him. If you would mind play, and hold him for 3 more months, chances are you will prove him your superiority. But there are also chances that you would lose him. You don't really know what's going on with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hopeless Girl Posted April 10, 2011 Author Share Posted April 10, 2011 Depends how serious you are for him. If you want him back, and don't want to take the risk, then wait for 3 months as he said. He might be already facing some kind of psychological problem, and your company can be a good help for him. If you would mind play, and hold him for 3 more months, chances are you will prove him your superiority. But there are also chances that you would lose him. You don't really know what's going on with him. You are totally right.. Im gonna stick with the 3 months.. Link to post Share on other sites
Fufu Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 You can go with it, however do leave some percentage that he may choose not to return to your side (just in case, it's always good to be mentality prepared in some ways if the situation doesn't turn out positive) All the best to you Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 My confused now exboyfriend made a dare with me to not speak to each other in 3 months while he goes to therapy. Should I extend it to 6 months? Do what you want to do. None of us here has anywhere near enough information to make a decision for you. Messing with someone's head sounds like a spiteful, angry thing to do. Focus on why you're feeling angry and why you've come to the idea of messing with someone's head as a result of your anger. Do you think it will benefit you? I think there are better ways to experience and express those feelings, but ultimately, you do what you want to do. Link to post Share on other sites
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