Author Heidi89 Posted April 12, 2011 Author Share Posted April 12, 2011 I thought my ex would be missing me by now, we saw eachother every day and texted when we were apart. His family all say he is making the biggest mistake of his life because we were so good together. We had problems but nothing that couldn't have been worked through. There aren't many stories of reconciliation on here so I think even if he did regret his decision it's too late for us. I'm still devastated! I hope you're okay! Link to post Share on other sites
WutheringH Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 Both of you guys, he will be missing you! Im yet to meet anybody that has spent time in a long term relationship and not missed various aspects of it when its ended. It's totally normal. You can bet that he's running the good times through his mind. On another level however. 'You' as a person just aren't worth his resources and investment anymore. Thus he feels he can't reinvest in the relationship. No contact works both ways. Likely the dumper dosn't want to bridge contact again because they've made a decision and now they will stick to their guns. As long as their not playing obvious mind games. In which case the various narcisstic, borderline and down right sociopathic types spring to mind. He's likely a fairly adverage person feeling a mix of guilt,hope,relief,sadness etc. He's human and thus will just be trying to figure out what feels best for him and in the process minimise the hurt for you. Link to post Share on other sites
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