Lying..??

[FlyAway&ComeBack]

So this guy approached me at the club last week and asked to take me out, I said no. When he asked for a reason why, I couldn't give him one. I don't have a man, my feelings are tied up at the moment but didn't need to let him know ALL THAT So I said ok, and I gave him my number. He texted me later that night and the next day and the day after. So I agreed to go to eat with him. We connected pretty well he was a cool person. He asked me to come look at his apartment (dude had money, and wanted to show it?) So I agreed. Went to his apartment which was very nice and that's all that happened. He dropped me off about 3 in the morning. We stayed and talked for hours. The next day he texted me and I told him I didnt want to see him very often, needed to keep him on the edge of his seat so he doesnt get to use to me. Well, the next day I went to his house and stayted the night. Before we went to bed I saw on his calendar, "You're a player deyo, a big player but I still love you and miss you all the time". He said it was from his friend from college, she still thinks he's a player from college. I didn't believe him, and told him he didn't have to lie to chill with me. It wasn't a big deal, we are just friends. I can't stand liars. Well he continually said that it was just his friend and I could meet here when she comes into town next. Well we went to the bed and stuff. I told him we weren't having sex, which he has known from the beginning , the first day we met. He just kept begging and begging and I kep sayin no. He said he had bought condoms and all that and I was kinda pissed because I told him he shouldn't expect anything from me cause I wasn;t going to give it up and he should respect that I have morales. Well, he said he did respect it. But now he basically brings it up everytime he texts me. I asked him for a back rub (he had gave me one before,which male friends do; I have a bad back) he said he woould have to think about it because friends don't kiss, touch, hold hands etc. I said okay, you're blowing it out of proportion, so I will too. Lets just stop talkiong since it's a big deal we're not having sex. he called me childish and that I actually want to fight with him over this etc. I was like i'm childish because I told you I am not having sex with you and yet, you still expect me to?? HMM ok. And he just basically said okay, I don;t have anything to say to that and just let it be. he said he would stop talking about it. He knows I am still very much in love with my ex-fiance. I spent the night at his house so I could have a ride in the morning to go to my ex's house for a date.. Like he KNOWS. I feel like it's wrong to have sex with other people especially if you and your partner agreed to just be exclusive, I will just be with that one person. The whole point of this was to asking, if you saw that on a guys calendar, would you think that was a friend from college.... or just another girl kinda thing.