FaithInTheDark Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 It has been 6 weeks since me and my boyfriend have been together. He works 100's of miles away for weeks at a time, even months. I knew going into this that with his line of work things would be like that. But I have concluded I can no longer handle it. Communication has been at a all time low as well.. and just has really really been depressing me. Finally, I called him up and told him how i felt. he said he didnt want to hold me back, sayin he really likes me, but basically underdstood if i wanted to end things. he said he could really use having me by his side, and needs me. I really want to be together, and really care about him. So we talked about me coming up to where he is to stay with him. The town sucks, but there is alot of work. We are splitting the cost for a bus ticket..and the bus ride is 30 hours! Ive always been a pretty independent person, but my bf makes me happy and being without him ive been a emotional basketcase..The other thing is I currently live with my parents and work in a coffee shop, that doenst pay very well. I Dont have much to loose. I have kinda been wasting my time doing nothing..and partying alot..and think maybe leaving here would be good for me. Im just wondering If U guys think its a bad idea to leave my life and move to be with someone?? has anyone done it and have any experiences or advice to share? thanks Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 IMHO it is way too soon for you to be deciding to move away with someone. Not just that but if you two cannot make the RS work LD when it has only been 6 weeks, I really do not know how you are going to handle a day to day rs either. If communication is at an all time low then that speaks volumes right now. I just cannot see that being a good idea for you right now. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Have you only been together 6 weeks, or is it 6 weeks since you last saw him? If you've only been together 6 weeks then it's much too soon to move. If you want changes in your life whether you're with him or not and you're going to live on your own at first then I'd say go for it no matter how long you've been together, but if you're moving purely to live with him or live close to him then it's way too soon if you've known him only 6 weeks. It has been 6 weeks since me and my boyfriend have been together. He works 100's of miles away for weeks at a time, even months. I knew going into this that with his line of work things would be like that. But I have concluded I can no longer handle it. Communication has been at a all time low as well.. and just has really really been depressing me. Finally, I called him up and told him how i felt. he said he didnt want to hold me back, sayin he really likes me, but basically underdstood if i wanted to end things. he said he could really use having me by his side, and needs me. I really want to be together, and really care about him. So we talked about me coming up to where he is to stay with him. The town sucks, but there is alot of work. We are splitting the cost for a bus ticket..and the bus ride is 30 hours! Ive always been a pretty independent person, but my bf makes me happy and being without him ive been a emotional basketcase..The other thing is I currently live with my parents and work in a coffee shop, that doenst pay very well. I Dont have much to loose. I have kinda been wasting my time doing nothing..and partying alot..and think maybe leaving here would be good for me. Im just wondering If U guys think its a bad idea to leave my life and move to be with someone?? has anyone done it and have any experiences or advice to share? thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Author FaithInTheDark Posted April 11, 2011 Author Share Posted April 11, 2011 No...we havent seen each other in 6 weeks..we have been together for 3 months. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 11, 2011 Share Posted April 11, 2011 3 months isn't long either. How many days have you spent together IRL? Link to post Share on other sites
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